Am I making any progress towards being where I want to be with females?

[Jimrat86]

Just feel like the changes I make are not helping my lack of dating in life. At all. Should I just settle at this point? Seems like the market has gotten exponentially more difficult for me since 2015.

[coachTanthony]

Changes are not going to magically make your dating life better. The more at bats you get will make it better. Practice makes perfect. If I was giving you advice I would say get on Bumble put up 6 photos of just you. No gym pics, selfie pics etc. Bio should read I am happily single but lucky for you I am flexible. Choose a couple of fun prompts and go from there. Swipe right on some women you may not normally go for and just get out there and meet people. Most men get stuck on always swiping on the same types of people. I wouldn't call it settling I would call it being realistic.

[Guy13]

Are you putting yourself in situations where there are many real people and not in a bar? www.meetup.com art tours,... What's up and your City for listings. Definitely female ones etc...

[Jimrat86]

I am actually a co-organizer of a Meet up group. There have been and will be events, but it's usually like a 5 to 1 guy to girl ratio.

[Guy13]

Wow…you are Brave ‼️
Where I am the women out number men in university etc. it’s 60/40 social but the soccer ⚽️ is 85/15 men to women.

[Jimrat86]

Thanks! Well, it's moreso a smaller area with limited options. The good ones get swooped up quickly, and then that leaves very few. Then there is the fact that they are not interested in me that makes it even worse. So, I'm taking initiative to try to create more opportunities for myself.

[jennifer_bloom]

My advice would be to wear different colours and walk in the sun for 20 minutes a day so you can get a natural tan. You look better in blue, I would drop the grey.

[Jimrat86]

Thanks. I actually tan in a spa, since it is too cold to tan outside currently

[jennifer_bloom]

I would not do it in a spa, it might be bad for your skin. Just change your clothing style and brush up on your charisma, girls love charm.