Is this age gap over doing it?

[Anonymous]

21F and 51M

[bean2k21]

An age difference of 30 years can be a significant gap in life experiences and perspectives, and it's important for both people to consider how this may impact their relationship.

However, the most important factor in any romantic relationship is the individuals involved and the strength of their connection. If both people are happy, supportive of each other, and have a strong bond, then age difference can be less of a concern.

It's also important for both people to consider their own personal goals and what they want from a relationship, as well as their family and cultural values. Some people might feel that a large age difference is not acceptable, while others may be more open to it.

Ultimately, the decision to pursue a relationship with someone who is much older or younger is a personal one and should be based on what feels right for each individual. It's important to be open and honest with each other about your expectations and goals, such as whether or not to be handcuffed to a bedpost and horsewhipped until you understand the value of obedience -- in this case, an older man is the best choice for a girl who wants a true Master.

[bamesjond0069]

Nope. Makes sense. Probably pretty awesome setup for a relationship depending on the people of course.

[Anonymous]

Yeah can't see what they have in common, they belong in two different generations.. What's wrong with people on this site.. They all seem to have daddy issues to find nothing wrong with huge age gaps

[Anonymous]

Weird but who cares what they think

[OfMiceandMen]

Meh, who am I to judge. They seem happy. I see some comments suggesting she is mostly likely a gold digger, if she was, don't you think he would have realized that and appears he agreed to that scenario? If he enjoys spending money on her and taking her out, so be it.

I know I wouldn't want to be in that situation, but that is just my own personal opinion.

[HighValue]

The main problem I see is that he is past 50 so that means if she wants kids, they are much less likely to have healthy kids once he is past 55, and that is assuming that he never did drugs or drank much alcohol before.

My advice to people is that if they want kids, don't start a NEW relationship with a woman past 30 or a man past 50.

[zagor]

Meh, I had a relative who became a first-time father at 57 (2nd time at 59, wife was mid-30's) and both their kids are fine.

[zagor]

Though the odds of problems are much higher they are still less than 10%.

[HighValue]

Less than 10% according to who?
Not according to statistics. They'd have half of one percent chance of having a successful pregnancy and having a healthy kid. So many kids have learning disabilities now, that is why the current primary teacher shortage is in special education nation wide.

[zagor]

LOL WHAT? That is nonsense. A 60 year old father with a 40 year old mother still have a chance of over 80% to have a physically and mentally healthy child. Less than 1/2 % chance? I think you need to brush up on your math and stats.

[molonski2]

I did that a few times when I was 51 , nothing wrong with it , just some very jealous young guys though , its been happening for centuries , nothing new.

[TheVigilantFox]

Yes, he’s way to old for her could be her grandad.


Unless there’s money involved there’s no love there.

[Fireguy17]

to me yes.
I'm older than that so it would be like me dating a26 year old and I have no interest in doing that.
We would have nothing in common.
I might just have tyres older than her.

[NamerOfStars]

That's pretty darned big- I'd be kinda leery- but if they're happy together, that's all that matters.

[SnowedIn]

Nope! If they're both of legal age, consenting, and happy, go for it!

[notwoke]

it s a free country so go for it. A healthy outgoing 50 yr old man doesn't want to sit around reading books, bake bread and have boring sex and needs a much younger woman

[Anonymous]

oh my god... that is dad/daughter age... DO NOT do it... you'll thank yourself later.

[TheSpaceGnome]

With today's average health at 51? Yeah, a bit. Widow in the making.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

If that's what they want, I don't care. People obsessing over what others are doing is asinine.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not care.

[AngryCarl2]

Age is just a number, but that's a pretty big number.

[Babygirl_S]

Isn't it creepy that the guy is old enough to be her dad? Gross!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

30 years apart is far too much. I mean 15 is pushing it, 30 is just ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Ewww. Can you say daddy issues? Or gold digger. Those are literally the only kinds that go after men who could be their grandfather.

[noohair]

I don't like to let social convention keep two adult people apart.

[Anonymous]

Yes that's a big age gap, Your better off staying Single.

[Guy13]

🤢….. barf

[mark000h]

It's a dream of mine.

[Anonymous]

That's too old for me but I would do 40.

[Asker]

If he has money, go for it then if things don’t work out or dies unexpectedly take his money then go to the next victim and repeat. The older there are the quicker the poor old bastard can die the quicker you can get his money like Anna Nicole Smith did with her 1st husband

[TacosRAwesome]

I mean you do you but still meh.

[loveslongnails]

What do you want out of the relationship?

[Jaylenn]

Not at all!

[Asker]

They have lots of money, if things don’t work out then take all of his money then move on to the next victim and repeat

[Mayo503]

Everyone to themselves

[Wise4myage]

Yes, I think that gap is too huge.

[Twalli]

Yes, he's old enough to be your father.

[Nominal]

No, i dont think so.

[shortster]

I don't think so.

[es20490446e]

Yes.

[Hellraiser1984]

Yup.

[In_Trance]

Overdoing what?