If you're a good looking man, would you use your charm to get what you want from women?

[the_bruh]

[Guy13]

I do that but i do not abuse and I acknowledge in some way. A lady at the Courthouse did something special for me paperwork related. And she's one smoking hot Filipina. Anyway, I got 8 daffodils from my yard and put them in a little cheap tiny florist vase. She was not there the next day when I had to be present again with tenants. I left it on the counter out front for all the staff to enjoy as the pretty good-looking sweet guy.

It's the ladies behind the counters... not the judges that need to be your friend. The smile before the frown and request is invaluable. Selfishness is never attractive.

[the_bruh]

That sounded really lovely. A good deed. What i actually wanted to know is that if you actually had the looks and knowledge to get any woman you want, you use it but it'd be like manipulation. The problem is that of how our society created standards for how a nice guy would be, and it's easy to act it out. Combined with good looks and the knowledge it's possible to induce the feeling of love in women. But would it be ethical?

[coachTanthony]

Well first you need to the good looks then you need the charm to back it up. Not every good looking dude has charm. I would say many are duds in social situations. To answer your question I would not (wink)

[WanderingLoveWizard]

No, because I'm not a sociopath.
Not like our "charm" even works anyway most of the time.
Most women aren't stupid, they can tell when a guy is smoothing them over.
Keep in mind, it happens to them a lot

[the_bruh]

Well clearly no woman hates that a good looking guy smoothing them over. Since women beleives that men only want sex, it's possible for the man to act that he's not interested in her sexually and throw her off her judgement.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Wormn aren't as I tune to good looking dudes as everyone thinks. They're not like men.
The only thing I've noticed is especially attractive women will act a little cold around me at first, like "this is guy is definitely gonna try to get in my pants. Not happening buddy!"

Then after a while they start to act like "Why is he not trying to get in my pants? What's wrong with me?"

I guess the whole "smoothing over" thing does work on less attractive women. You're right. But I don't want anything from them

[the_bruh]

No but looking good is great as a first impression and helps make them more comfortable easier. From my experience less attractive women are much more comfortable talking to than less attractive women. And the major difference for women arises from her ideas about how men are, average women initiates physical touch, less attractive women don't even try at all unless you make a move. And the attractive women, just watches and makes assumptions based on how one acts towards her.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I can't argue with that

[the_bruh]

The problem is, everything actually feels like I'm trying to manipulate them into something they want. Where i come from, it's always the men that just simp behind women and now the women here expects men to go simping for them, i can't do that. And they never say about their interests in relationship. So i can make her say yes, but the last time. It took a toll on me. And hated relationships after that.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I hear you man. I've noticed relationships are harder for guys like us too. It's almost like women just don't know what to do with themselves because they're not used to the guy being on a level playing field with them.
They want to be the princess, not the prince's girlfriend

[the_bruh]

Honestly, no woman knows what to do when a man approaches them. They've been taught and learned from their environment. Like movies, parents, friends. Being good looking has it's advantages, but only in the first impressions.

The only problem with women is that how they think men are stupid. Try and make an intelligent conversation with them, they just go blank like something is wrong with us.
And if you watch carefully, you can see that most women are actually manipulating men. They use physical touch, talking about other men to create jealousy and above all act like it's actually our need to be in a relationship with them.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Yeah, it's definitely not as advantageous for men as it is for women.
Women are the queens of manipulation lol. It's in their nature. They have to be able to to survive, or men would eat them alive in this world

[the_bruh]

Lol, all that feminist fighting and not even got the freedom to express their feelings.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

We must live in different countries lol. That's all they do in America

[the_bruh]

Yea, but they aren't actually expressing what they themselves feel. Someone said something about low pay and then every girl was like yea I'm having less pay. It's more like a conspiracy theory now.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Haha you got that right.
In America, they just walk around with their tops off with signs that say "respect me!"

[the_bruh]

Lol, maybe if they put their tops back on some guys might actually read their signs.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

😂 exactly

[OfMiceandMen]

I am half decent based on what I've been told, and no, I would not use my charm to get anything from women, other than a second date, and hopefully something genuine.

[magiusX26]

you mean behave like most top percentage guys? can't say since am not one of them.

[the_bruh]

What i meant was the features that can have an influence in the first impression of women. Basically men who have an advantage look wise. Great body, good eyes, hair, facial structure etc

[TheSpaceGnome]

Well the only thing I want from a woman is a loving and relatable permanent relationship, so yeah.

[RolandCuthbert]

I am ugly. But I did use women. And I was a horrible boyfriend, husband, etc.

[SolitarySolace]

No. I would use it to turn down as many women as possible and make them believe something is wrong with them

[Anonymous]

Good luck with that. We can see right through that BS.

[Forceinhand]

You can't get anything you want simply by being good looking. There's always a limit.

[Anonymous]

If there was something I wanted. What I want doesn't come as easy as that.

[Hotboy_booblover]

I think girls would get from me what they want in that case..

[Fuentes]

I do it when it's needed

[OddBeMe]

As a business guy, even uggos use charm and tact.

[Jltakk]

I just live my life normally.