It's going to take time. I know that's easy for me to say. But that's the real right answer. You said you're on day one of bawling. That's okay. But one foot in front of the other. One hour/day at a time. Keep living your life and you'll find that you will get over your dom. And maybe find someone new.
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Just realize that he isn't for you and wasn't going to give you everything you needed. Find someone new. Good luck.
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Find one more compatible which is difficult to do especially if he is not skilled meeting both your physical and emotional needs. To some degree both need to occur.
You must have gotten off the short bus
It sounds like you had a hard limit and he wasnât willing to compromise.
Itâs just an incompatibility, thatâs all.
He respected your hard limit and decided it was best to part ways, as you suggested.
It may take some time to get over this, as with any relationship.
Youâll have to let go of him as well and set your mind on other things.
There are monogamous Doms out there that will treat you right.
Youâll just need to find each other.
With how invested you sound, you deserve a monogamous Dom who is equally invested in you as well, someone who wonât divide their attention between multiple subs.
I have a monogamous relationship with my sub, and I actually prefer it that way, so that I can put more time and energy into cultivating a closer and deeper bond with just her, rather than spread my time and attention too thin.
Itâs important to know early on if you and your potential Dom share the same views and values when it comes to your relationship.
I wish you the best, and I hope you will be able to move on without your heart aching too much.Find another dom. Do you have a fetlife account?
You need to move on and try to meet someone else. Put this behind you.
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