Nope, I wouldn't take it as a red flag unless it's his way of talking to everyone.
I value and respect people who know what they want and go for it. Nothing worse then someone indecisive and unsure. It's a time waster. If you feel you guys are a match, doing good together, growing etc. I wouldn't see it as a red flag. But if his words don't match his actions in terms of dedication and attachment then it might be.
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Nah... That was a little bit socially awkward of him to say, but that message alone doesn't seem like a redflag to me. Having an awkward sense of humor doesn't mean that he's obsessive.
There might be other things that tip the scale, but I don't think what you've shared here is that bad.
Not to me. Focused and same thinking. No mystery which is nice to know his intentions
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First, is it really a joke?
Second, no, I don't think it's a red flag.
... but...
... it's bad taste. Marriage isn't something to joke about. Either be serious or don't say anything at all.
But not a red flag.
Not really, it I'd just a compliment to you, that he sees you as wife material.
Based on the one comment no but if it happens often perhaps something to be concerned with. Did you tell him that was not humorous and makes you feel a certain way? Best of luck. DM always open.
He was joking and a giving you a slight hint at the same time. I don’t see a red flag
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