Is it common for women to overthink and over complicated things early on when dating?

[red324]

I've had a girl want to move in after the second date and I was like let's wait a bit then she starts over analyzing thinks, talking to her friends about me then of course I get a bad report when her friends don't even know me. This happens a lot where girls overthink and go from one extreme to another. We've been on 2 dates can we just go on some more dates and enjoy each other's company and continue to get to know each other? Are these women I meet just crazy? Of course I get dumped about as fast as they decide to move in

[SteveSmith1985]

Yes dude. This woman is just crazy. That's what's happening here. She's fucking looney dude. No sane woman would ever even THINK about moving in with a guy after two dates. That is wildly inapropriate in the extreme.

You often hear of "red-flags" as applying to guy when talking to women about guys.

Well this is a huge red-flag applying to women from a man's perspective.

I don't care what else is going on in that situation. If any woman even TALKS about moving in together after two dates... you run. You run fast, and you run far. Because that woman if straight-up crazy.

I have never even HEARD of something like this before. She is a rare form of crazy. But a form that's so clearly obvious... that you are an idiot if you agree to see her again. No good will come of that. She has no idea about appropriate boundaries. What's your third date gonna be? Maybe she'll take you to meet her parents? (this chick is crazy. Inappropriate, and crazy.)

[Guy13]

That is how they were designed and it is no more complicated than this reality. We all have to factor that into Relationship and lessen the insecurities that they possess.

[Anonymous]

It’s normal to a woman with trauma of some sort from an ex that she’s yet to heal from. Like personally there’s no way on earth I’d be asking a guy to live with him after the second date. On top of that I don’t even gossip with my friends about my partner. When we are all the same age going through the motions of dating at the same time, then how much benefit will their option have? Not only that but I wouldn’t want them to gain a negative perspective of him based on the things I’ve shared.