Are some men invisible to women?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This goes for both sexes. However if a man isn’t attracted to a woman he won’t notice her or go out his way to talk to her. If she tries to get attention from him he will might be friendly if she isn’t rude. But if she is rude or aggressive he will be annoyed. But he doesn’t get leeway to get angry or rude with her if he’s in a bad mood

But if a woman doesn’t find a man physically attractive (at all) she will only be nice/friendly to him if she’s in a good mood and his approach was done in a way she “felt” was okay. Like he said a joke that she actually found funny.

However any nervousness or bold risk taking that the unattractive man takes would be looked at “a threat”. Women have far less tolerance for an unattractive man who didn’t approach them perfectly well vs. a man who was approached by an unattractive woman when he’s not in a good mood.

At best she will be annoyed and will just ignore him. But at worst she will label him a “creep” no matter how harmless his approach was.

However a man who ignores unattractive woman because he’s not interested and/or in a good mood is looked at as an asshole, arrogant, etc. He’s “mean” for doing that.

However in society a woman’s negative response is always fine if her feelings justify it. Sometimes it is justified if the unattractive guy was aggressive, rude, etc. But labeling an unattractive guy “creepy” just because he dared to say hello to a woman is just wrong.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Oh no as the woman sees everything and often notices things the man has no clue about. If they are not paying one attention, it is because they do not want to share either time or Space with that guy.

Red-Blaze · Accepted Answer

Invisible no, but maybe less noticeable

The simply thing is, if you look like a norwmal anyone, I likely will not notice you much
You wear a dino suit scream out I AM A DINO AND GOING TO EAT YOU ALL I may notice you more
Regardless, some I can say personally I do notice, but act like I dont, as some the momment you give them a little attantion they take it completley out of proprotion and then buzz around when I may just want a qruit time
Had it a lot of cases
I really love to apprciate pepole for creative or stuff well done, and I can't count the amount of times I told someone online something simple like "Great username/profile photo" that they taken as me intrested to sexet with them
Or just looking at someone for a little too long and they think then I want to go out with them
After a while started to just stop giving any attantion at all to most
So it may seem like your invisible to me, but most likely I notice you, but may not show it, to avoid too much attantion sadly

metalheadphysicist · Accepted Answer

No. If the question was rephrased: "Are some men invisible to some women?", then yes I would agree. There are certain things that will make a man invisible to some women, but then this works on the flip side to make him intriguing to others. For example, some women may ignore/disregard the quiet, introverted guys, but others may find that mysterious. No one is completely invisible to everybody, unless they are a COMPLETE NPC with no personality. If that is the case, then the fault is theirs and they should try to find some enjoyment in life, a hobby.

Pinay_ako · Answer

It goes both ways… some are just there. They know your name but you don’t know theirs. They’ve been admiring you from afar… you don’t even know they exist.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, most women can see quite well. They are actively avoiding acknowledging the existence of some guys.

Novacane · Answer

I wouldn’t say they are “invisible” i would say they are choosing to ignore those men because they don’t find them pleasant enough to remember or talk to them so they just won’t acknowledge you. Of course this can be vice versa but happens more to men than women

Gibbons44 · Answer

The attractive ones are not. But most women are unable to relate to injury and take it to be an offense if I don't go with their hints/suggestions (sexual and other needs). They can get highly abusive when they perceive their pussy power is being 'disrespected'

BrotherBane · Answer

When you walk into a shopping mall, do you notice all the shops that you passed by? It's the same thing with people. We only notice those who caught our attention.

Leopard23 · Answer

If you are under 6ft yeah

lightbulb27 · Answer

no, they see you, but they tune you out and exclude you. You have to project value they relate to, else you have none... that's just reality.

RockyHammock · Answer

In a literal sense, no. However if you don't have your shit together it may seem that way.  - workout - eat for performance > taste - take showers

BagoH · Answer

If you're an average looking guy, you're invisible for sure until you make a good impression somehow. Otherwise you'll be a ghost.

magiusX26 · Answer

socially and romantically speaking yes. studies have proven this.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yep just like some girls are invisible to you or you gonna act as if you find every girl you see attractive?

Twalli · Answer

No, but we can be undesirable to most women.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most of us have eyes, so nope.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

No one's invisible in the eyes of the lord

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

🙄🙄 not. THIS. AGAIN!

Christoff92 · Answer

All depends on the guys

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Certainly feels that way, lol.

serious · Answer

The answer is yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Most men are invisible to women

Shy_Steve · Answer

Shy Guys.

SpudSteer · Answer

Yes Yes Yes Yes

Anonymous · Answer

I know I am

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