Is it weird if a guy never chased women before?

[Anonymous]

i never dated or chased women before i never felt the need to do that in my life.

i feel like a woman will come into my life at the right time.

[BubblyPenguin23]

While I agree with that, I also think sometimes you have to take initiative to make that happen as well. It doesn't matter if you meet the right person at the right time, if you're not taking initiative to invite them or keep them in your life.

[Bethany22]

I know a guy in his 70s who had always had that same mindset, and he's still single and regrets not making more of an effort when he was younger.

[serious]

What is weird about that?

I have never chased/pursued any woman. I never tried and I won't ever do this.

There is nothing weird about this.

[Still-alive]

its good because chasing never works except on the ones who love to play games. you don't want those chicks anyway.

you should pursue but never chase.

[midnightcavern01]

It could mean you struggle with attachment. You may feel you're laid back about but chances are you just don't know how to involve. Yourself or care enough to do so

[ChiTown33]

Nope. We aren't issued a manual about this s*** when we're young.

[Twalli]

I don't chase women, but I will date them if they agree when I ask them out. If they decline for any reason or play hard to get, I move on.

[strlb]

At some point chicks want to know that you're interested so chasing is apart of getting a female parter to explore life with

[LimitedBenefits101]

Weid? come on G, that's how it should be

Never chase them.

[Quackthulu2]

It’s weird if he expects anyone to care.

[Msputiton]

Naw.

[Asker]

thanks i was worrying

[Msputiton]

Others shouldn't need to give you reassurance. Knowing you are being you is all that matters