Me and this girl have been bestfriends for over a year and we always go out together on the weekends. It happened to be one of my friends birthdays (he is also friends with my ex) and I told him I’d only make it if my bestfriend can come along. He agreed and when we made it to the party my ex was there. He was flirting with me all night and asked me to come over for a movie after which I declined.
I left the party early to go to a dinner with my other friends and I receive a text saying “your ex just confessed he likes me”. She stops answering me from that point and my other friend told me they flirted and danced all night and held hands.
when I confronted her she admitted to everything and told me everything happened so fast and that they also kissed but she said that he made all the moves on her. She also told me that he touched her inappropriately through her clothes while they kissed
What would you advise anyone to do in this situation? I dont have feelings for my ex and I dated people after him. She was also friends with my ex before me and her met.
She doesn't have feelings for my ex in fact she is head over heels for his best friend who has rejected her for 2 years but she won't give up. When I left the party my ex told her that he has liked her for a long time and said he can treat her better than his bestfriend ever can. Mind you he asked me to come over before I left the party and my bestfriend KNEW THIS. when she confronted him he said “I asked everyone to come over, not just her” and she believed him
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Dont worry about it , he is not your property you split up , she likes him , let it go its of absolutely no concern of yours any longer.
I do not care to be posessive over my ex. I dont like him. It is just a matter of respect that she didn't talk to me beforehand and I had to find this out from my other friend. I was worried that maybe if I introduce my future boyfriend she will also flirt with him. But im not sure if that is me overthinking
He's not a possession , with due respect she has no need to tell you any of it , she can do as she pleases.
with friends like that who needs enemies