I am 5’6.5 am I too tall to be considered feminine for men to date me or just in general?

[Anonymous]

Too many guys masculinize me am I really that tall

[SteveSmith1985]

No. That's not even a tall girl. This... is not a thing that guys are going to masculinize you for. I have no idea the extent to which guys genuinely see you that way vs. your perception that guys see you that way.

But I can tell you for sure, that it's not because you're 5'6.5" tall. That's a very very very regular height for a girl. It's a taller girl... but not even someone who would ever be described as "tall"... because it's well within the range of "usual".

I have talked to a lot of tall insecure girls (all taller than you by the way). I have never in my life heard a guy complain about a woman's being too tall. Not once.

I can't help but think that a lot of this is simply a major personal insecurity at-play. I do not know what your experiences have been to lead you to ask this. I do not know the extent to which guys really see you in a masculinized way. But if they do. It cannot be for your height. I can think of so many girls I know who are that tall. Their height isn't even notable. I think this (the height part of it anyway) is very much something you're insecure about... but other people don't even notice.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

The problem isn't your height. The problem is your problem with your height.

"I am 5'6.5"

Someone who is obsessed enough to differentiate that.5 is someone who projects that insecurity into every relationship they have.

Work on your frame of mind. The problem is not how men view you the problem is how you view yourself and how you act from frame of mind in your interactions with others.

[surprisedjo]

Nope, you’re pretty average. You’re just interacting with midgets 😂

[Asker]

They always prefer a 5 inch difference its sad ngl

[AviatorTom]

That's a very average height for a woman. Most guys would be fine with it.

[Avicenna]

No, your height is great

[Berethor]

5’9 is the average height for men in US, you are pretty tall for a woman, you like amazon.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Lliam]

5'6.5" isn't all that tall for a girl. It's within the average range. That height is not masculine at all.

[UniquelyBasic]

All the men probably have to literally look up at you 😅

[Asker]

I mean not really but they still call me a man💀

[UniquelyBasic]

Because of your height? Really? If anything and I'm not saying I agree but I feel a guy wouldn't feel masculine if he was 5'6 so I find it hard to believe other people think your manly because of height.

[OfMiceandMen]

That's not tall for a girl, you're just in the upper part of average.

[lightbulb27]

no, and I've seen stronger women your size whom had boyfriends. something else is going on...

[Likes2drive]

Sounds about average for a woman, not to tall to me, not sure why anyone would say anything to you

[shortster]

Nope, I would date someone as tall or taller than you. And I am only 5'5".

[htmndg183]

You are not. The shortest girls i dated were taller than you.

[Anonymous]

Men don’t care about height. They care about weight.

[Anonymous]

dunno can I see you? your height should not be a problem.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope. You're fine.

[Marked_Man]

I'd date you. I'm 6'3

[zagor]

That isn't very tall.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. It's fine.

[clampfan101]

I find both shorter and taller girls attractive.

[Anonymous]

Are you in a country where people are quite short?

[Anonymous]

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