So my work partner and I get along great and she actually picks me up and drops me off at home every day also, she shares all of her food and drinks with me and is a cool ass chick and so one day we are training a guy and at the end of the day he asks me if I like her and I'm like well yeah and he says "dude she wants you" and I'm just like really you think so? And he says oh yeah.
So I tell her one day if she ever wants somebody to ride with her (she travels a couple hours all the time to see family) I would and she acts excited and says what about tomorrow I gotta go here she says and I say yeah, I'll be by to get ya at this time, okay sounds great, well that time rolls around and I got all ready and asked hey we still doing that and she says oh sorry I left early this morning and already here.
So I also asked her if she wants to go out and eat sometime after we get paid and She Said and the She reminded one day she said we still gotta go eat some Chinese food some time and I said yeah for sure. So I asked her a couple weeks later if she was ťdoing anything on her days off and she said nothing planned so I asked if she wanted to go eat and maybe go see a movie or a nature trail and she said sounds fun sure.
So the next day rolls around andi messeg her saying hey we didn't say a time and she then informs me that she is outta state.
So with that happening twice already I'm thinking I should just forget about it because it doesn't seem to me anymore that she wants a date with me because if she was into me like that wouldn't she have at least called and canceled or something because she never said another word about it.
I felt she liked me also like dude said but I don't get that vibe anymore so what could have happened that made her change her mind because nothing happened that I know of but she just seems kinda cold now and that is a bummer because I really do wanna be more then friends, and should I ask her again?
So I tell her one day if she ever wants somebody to ride with her (she travels a couple hours all the time to see family) I would and she acts excited and says what about tomorrow I gotta go here she says and I say yeah, I'll be by to get ya at this time, okay sounds great, well that time rolls around and I got all ready and asked hey we still doing that and she says oh sorry I left early this morning and already here.
So I also asked her if she wants to go out and eat sometime after we get paid and She Said and the She reminded one day she said we still gotta go eat some Chinese food some time and I said yeah for sure. So I asked her a couple weeks later if she was ťdoing anything on her days off and she said nothing planned so I asked if she wanted to go eat and maybe go see a movie or a nature trail and she said sounds fun sure.
So the next day rolls around andi messeg her saying hey we didn't say a time and she then informs me that she is outta state.
So with that happening twice already I'm thinking I should just forget about it because it doesn't seem to me anymore that she wants a date with me because if she was into me like that wouldn't she have at least called and canceled or something because she never said another word about it.
I felt she liked me also like dude said but I don't get that vibe anymore so what could have happened that made her change her mind because nothing happened that I know of but she just seems kinda cold now and that is a bummer because I really do wanna be more then friends, and should I ask her again?
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