Would you decline a second date with someone who said they didn't want kids/marriage, BUT you do? (Page 2)
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Hmm. Marriage in the meaning of coitus/sex - if it isn't for that, it's friendship, not a date.
if they would be open to adopting or fostering maybe… but i wouldn’t be happy later on down the road
Yes, or vice versa. This is a fundamental incompatibility.
Yes.. if you compromise like that you will never be happy
Yes as there is no sense in continuing things if we are not going in the same direction
For me, a sacred relationship like marriage is very important. If someone doesn't want to have this relationship with me, then dating him is a waste of both my feelings and time.
I think in that scenario you don't have business together.
Yes because that would be wasting both of our times if I didn't decline it.
In that case, probably yeah. It's a little hard to imagine though, because I'm not particularly for or against either.
Yes. Why string him along? I don’t want to waste his time nor mine. Period. 🤷🏽♀️
If she was nice and she liked me I would go out with her.
Of course I would because they would be a waste of time for me (and them).
I don't want kids/marriage, I have a feeling I'm never going to find a woman who wants the same. Why should I be forced to have something I don't want
Of course. I want a traditional family, with kids and a stay at home wife. I’ll only date someone who wants the same.
I suppose if my life goals were marriage and children then I would maybe go out a few more times and see how committed she is to that idea.
If one person wants kids and or marriageand the other doesn't wants kids and or marriage then it should be over.
Not at all. At this point in my life, it was a dream from thirteen to twenty eight, but is no longer important.
Yes I would. That is a red flag that I don't want to deal with.
Wait, why a red flag?
I mean, I get it won’t make you two compatible, but a red flag? That’s too far.
I don't need to have kids right now so we could still fuck around for awhile.
Not if I thought I could get a few months of sex out of it before moving on.