Is it homophobic if I request a birth certificate on the first date just in case my date is trans? (Page 2)

[nawtee_me]

that is why you get to know someone before you go out with them. Ask them... If they lie about it... shoot them. lol

[ColHathi]

Transphobic maybe, yeah.

[Asker]

Oh nice

[AngryCarl2]

No, that's transphobic. And if you can't tell the difference what's the problem?

[Pete671]

So you would like to find out if your guy was born female?

[zagor]

I hope you are joking.

If you can't tell the difference you shouldn't be dating.

[zagor]

And it wouldn't be homophobic unless you are dating women

[clampfan101]

You need to know. If you can’t take his word for it, I guess that’s your only other option.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No, not fearing of homosexuality. Maybe a bit paranoia, but I’m no doctor.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Lol. The girls where I’m from actually prefer trans men for some reason

[Asker]

My god...

[WhiteBoyChill]

But to answer your question, how is it possible to mistake a transgender person for a cisgender?

[KostasKouvalis]

That's actually a good idea

[Asker]

yes, but I found out that they are forging even the certificate so this idea doesn't matter anymore

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh Jesus Christ. These people should be illegal

[Asker]

It's free for them to scam us by hiding themselves, but if we don't want to be deceived, they will say us transphobic.. New world

[KostasKouvalis]

I agree. I think we have a right to know. Like I don't have to, nor can I force myself to be attracted to trannies. It's scary that we live in a society that you can't even be sure what gender you're talking to.
Did something happened to you?

[Asker]

Nothing happened to me, but if people continue to normalize them, something can happen to all of us. I read the story of a man who found out after his wife died that she was actually a man

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh my God! That is insane that he kept something like that from him. I would've been so traumatized. Michael Phelps got traumatized from it and another girl on this website got traumatized from it. These people are so selfish and so stuck in their fake reality, that they don't care or realize the effect they have on other people

[Asker]

They hide because they don't even love themselves, then they expect us to love them. What a contradiction

[KostasKouvalis]

You maybe be right

[Drumlin2001]

That would be a massive red flag to me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, it's smart.

[BarryLiverstone]

Based on this question yes

[Anonymous]

that's kind of fucked up

[Opinion Owner]

that's kind of a fucked up thing to do

[Asker]

it would still be fun

[Opinion Owner]

how? in what way?

[Anonymous]

Not in this day and age.

[Whatthefluff]

You have no manners.

[AimeeKyle]

Seems a bit uptight

[Luckycharms12]

Kinda wired