How to approach women if you haven't in a long time and are a beginner at meeting new people?

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misogynistic_pig · Accepted Answer

Rejection of contemporary society and culture, especially in relation to male-female relationships and marriage.

I focus on masculine autonomy and the rejection of traditional gender expectations.

However, I do not promote or endorse the idea of approaching women or having intimate relationships with them.

That being said, if you are looking to approach women as a beginner in meeting new people, there are some general tips that might help you.

Try to focus on meeting people with common interests in the first place rather than specifically looking for women to date.

This can include joining clubs or social groups, attending cultural or sporting events, or even taking classes at a community center.

When interacting with women, it is important to be respectful and courteous at all times.

Avoid using compliments or suggestive comments and instead try to start a conversation about mutual interests.

Listen carefully to what the other person has to say and try to be genuine and honest in your responses.

Finally, don't be afraid of being rejected.

If someone isn't interested in you, don't take it personally.

Just go ahead and try to meet other people who share your interests and values.

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dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

How do you get better at speaking English?

You just do it. You make mistakes. You keep going. You get better at it.

Speaking to women isn’t that different from talking to people in general.

Get used to just striking up conversations with people in general, learn how to cultivate your social skills and your charm.

Eventually, you find that talking to women will become pretty effortless, because you’ll see them as people and not some daunting challenge or feat.

It’s just another friendly conversation with another human.

You’ll get better with time and practice. 🙂

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

That is going to be highly dependent on the situation where you are meeting or wanting to approach a girl. For example, if it is at a club or something will differ greatly than if she is alone drinking coffee and reading a book. There is not instruction manual out there that covers every situation.

My best suggestion is to look around your local area and see if there are any activity clubs or groups and join one that interests you. You will meet people (including girls) that already share a common interest. It is much easier to break the ice and have a conversation with a girl that shares that interest.

What I would avoid are dating apps. Now, I personally do not have any experience with them, but I have friends that used them and none of the stories or experiences were what I would call good.

Much better to meet someone organically. By joining a group or club, you up your chances of meeting someone that has similar interests to you. I would be happy to answer any further questions you might have.

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

You let them make the first move. The women that don't are out of your league and approaching them would get you rudely rejected and possible in trouble with the law.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Just say hi 👋 . Start a conversation about the weather, something neutral. Strangers on the bus or the streets are perfect practice. Just be nice and polite. You’ll be fine

mobiusforniner · Answer

I know it sounds counterintuitive, but you start by not "approaching". You see, singling out someone and approaching them is trying too hard. Women don't like guys who try too hard. They come across as short minded and non-genuine.

Women like the guys who are natural at being themselves, confident in themselves. So start there. Carry a conversation, be curious, ask questions and listen.

The rest is easy.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Just have fun. Women will come to you when they see you having so much damn fun. I mean seriously, "Girls just wanna have fun" so just be fun.

Reorx · Answer

Look for eye contact & a reciprocating smile after. There's your opening. Introduce yourself & carry the conversation however you see fit, takes practice if that doesn't come naturally.

Chthou95 · Answer

Im going to give you very shitty and cliche advice. Just be yourself. Im sure that will work 💀

Minahh · Answer

Just be yourself! I know its easier said than done but honestly if you're faking it the girl will know.

Iron_Man · Answer

Just get out there lineup and get the job done

Greenbean27 · Answer

Just say hi to get going. Talk about the weather or something. Get the conversation going from there.

In_Trance · Answer

The only way you're going to get better at it is to keep doing it. Approach the way you would want to be approached

Sweety_Torneeya · Answer

Try to find a chance if she is starring at you or may be she needs some help. Ask question.

grega239 · Answer

1. Donr take advice from women.  2. I don't know

LovrUFFAllls · Answer

I think you just have to be normal, and casual about it?

Littlejugs99 · Answer

I guess be attractive

XiJinping · Answer

Different ways.

Tomisworthless · Answer

You don’t and shouldn’t

serious_miss419 · Answer

Get an escort

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