How do I make things better with her?

[6886x2763forever]

Well, the things is that we were best friends before. Then I knew that she liked me and I also like her so I got into a romantic relationship with her and made it official without telling her, because she should be happy and suprised. But instead when she learnt that she's actually in a relationship with me then she scolded me and blocked me everywhere and since then she won't talk to me. It has been 7 months and yet now I don't understand why she rejected me. Instead, I want her now more badly. She's here actually and I want to hear her out. I can't leave her, I have been crushing on her for 3 years. Like I literally see her in my dreams every night, it has been like that since three years. I followed her and posted few opinions under her questions and mytakes. She is a good writer and pianist and I guess she's a bit well known here maybe you know how wise she is. How do I make things better with her?

[Apulu_Imback]

Not here, ugh why won't you just let me breath peacefully? How did you even knew about my ID over here? You really named your user ID as mine x yours admission number, duh so cheap. You won't reply my PMs. You said you want to finish things here right? So hear me out!

Yes I don't smile to many people, I smile to my friends and you WERE my friend! How many times do I need to call you bro before you accept it? I smile to my female friends, cousins too, do I crush on them then? Your logic is sick here.

You said that your feelings for me were mild and that it'll fade away in no time. Are you sure they are mild? It seems OBSESSIVE at this point! I would have never added you in my friend circle if I knew this side of yours.

You really shattered me by making our relationship official. I literally took an oath to stay single at least till I'm standing on my own shoes but here you are, not respecting that aspect of me even after KNOWING this! If you really 'loved' me till that so called moon of yours then you would have waited for me! Your so called love is not complete because there are no boundaries and RESPECT for my opinions! I would rather starve till death than staying with a man, sorry boy, who's obsessed over me, that's not love. That's your lust, your desire!

You still have the guts to say that I should have been happy with that stupid gift of yours? People really are different inside. You're not that guy who was my friend!

I never knew you would stalk your way here, get lost from this site! I have built a good reputation here and your matter is still not known, so I want you to go away before it is known! I came here because no one knows me here and I can go whatever I want without worrying about someone from real life judging me and comparing my offline self! I came here to BREATH! Why did you came here?

You want a nice talk? Fine, just meet me during lunch tomorrow. Call your friends too, I'll also call Nikhita and other friends of mine. Let's have a nice debate. I don't trust you enough to talk with you privately.

I order you to leave this site, you're a 'Roadside Romeo'. If you continue to annoy me here then I will send an anonymous message to your parents and your homeroom teacher /class teacher/ Learning mentor (LM) or whatever you call him. I'll text them all the screenshots of the messages you sent in our class group chat 'announcing our relationship'. Don't show off your stalking skills by joining on here and stuff. I also know how to blackmail, and I'll do that if necessary.

And I never curse, online and in real life. But I have a bad temptation to curse at you. Well, it's your fault. You are the reason for my frustration issue.

So my direct curse to you is,

You're a creepy scumbag.

You're the first person who made me curse. Congratulations on really testing my patience brutally. It's only so much I can take.

[6886x2763forever]

Okay, fine. I just realised you're really immature but I have the mature mind so I'm leaving the site. Let's have a good talk tomorrow in school.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao how tf you make it official without her knowledge 🤣 is that even a thing. I dont know if you can make things better. Just dont let the “getting back together” be a onesided thing as well

[6886x2763forever]

I mean, she was really close to me and she would smile at me often. She is not the one to smile at people frequently and she must be knowing that I like her because I gave her kisses chocolates day to day. She said me that she's always there for me when I lost in a football match. Isn't it an obvious sign that she likes me? Shouldn't she appreciate the fact that I made an official relationship without her knowledge as a gift? And she probably knew that I crushed on her since long time because our ship was really popular in our class. Why would she be my friend if she knew that I crushed on her?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're going through a difficult time, and it's important to approach the situation with empathy and respect for the other person's feelings and boundaries.

First of all, it's important to acknowledge that you made a mistake by not communicating with her before making your relationship official. It's understandable that she may feel hurt and betrayed by your actions, and it's important to take responsibility for your part in the situation.

If you want to try to make things better with her, it's important to approach her with humility and an open mind. Consider reaching out to her and apologizing for your behavior, and expressing your desire to make things right between you. However, it's important to respect her boundaries and not pressure her into talking to you or reconciling before she's ready.

It's also important to take some time to reflect on your own feelings and motivations. Why do you want to be with her now? Are your feelings based on genuine love and respect for her as a person, or are they driven by a desire to possess or control her? It's important to approach the situation with a mindset of respect and empathy for her feelings and boundaries, rather than a focus on your own desires.

Remember, it's up to her to decide whether or not she wants to forgive you and try to rebuild your friendship or relationship. It's important to respect her decision and prioritize her emotional wellbeing, even if it means letting go of your own desires.

[6886x2763forever]

Trust me, I really like her, maybe love too. I don't want to let her go. I tried reaching her out in school in physical too but she would ignore me as if I don't exist. She blocked me everywhere on-line too. So I joined here to connect with her but she is not happy with my presence. She called me a creep over PM! It's okay if she hates me but I want to stay with her. Honestly, my whole aim of life since I saw her was to get her and protect her no matter what. How can I suddenly live without an aim? She is my dream and I want to make her like me no matter what. Honestly, it's kind of her fault too. She would smile at me and talk to me nicely and it rised up my hopes for her as well. She doesn't smile often to people but she smiled to me that means she likes me! So I made our relationship official without her knowledge because I wanted it to be like a gift but she was frustrated and stopped talking with me since then.

[Opinion Owner]

It's important to understand that just because you have strong feelings for someone, it doesn't mean that they feel the same way. It's not fair to try to force someone to be with you or to make them like you, especially if they have made it clear that they are not interested.

It's also important to recognize that it's not entirely her fault that things didn't work out between you. While she may have smiled and talked to you nicely, that doesn't necessarily mean that she was interested in a romantic relationship with you. It's possible that she was simply being friendly, or that she didn't want to hurt your feelings by rejecting you outright.

It's important to respect her boundaries and decisions, even if they are difficult to accept. It's not healthy or appropriate to continue pursuing someone who has made it clear that they are not interested, especially if it's causing them discomfort or distress.

Instead, it may be helpful to focus on your own personal growth and well-being. Pursue your own interests and hobbies, build positive relationships with other people, and work on becoming the best version of yourself that you can be. Remember that you don't need someone else to give your life purpose or meaning - you can find those things within yourself.

[boggboss]

You are coming off as a stalker mate

[6886x2763forever]

I just want to have a nice talk with her.

[boggboss]

Yet you already blew it she dont want to talk to you so there ain't anything u can do

[6886x2763forever]

Where did I go wrong?

[boggboss]

By trying to make things official by surprise that's so stupid and creepy u didn't even know if she felt the same way thats not cute just creepy

[6886x2763forever]

She was obviously crushing on me. She would smile at me and she said once that she'll be with me no matter what when I lost a football match.

[boggboss]

Lol maybe in your head but clearly she dont want to be with u so u was wrong

[serious]

@boggboss

I agree with your opinion.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her work it out

[6886x2763forever]

I don't know what to do, she replied me in my opinions and texted me back on here but seems like she doesn't appreciate my 'hello' over here. She called me a creep!

[Iron_Man]

Keep trying do something special for her

[Apulu_Imback]

@Iron_Man well, he left. Don't mind him being a nuisance.

[Iron_Man]

@Apulu_Imback if he wants it bad enough he has to try

[Apulu_Imback]

He can never do anything special or good, at least not with this immaturity. So don't give him hopes, I don't want him to disturb my peaceful life anymore. By the way, I'm the girl he's talking about. So don't give him hopes.

[Iron_Man]

@Apulu_Imback oh it’s about you?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah, see his user ID. 6886x2768.
6886 is my admission number and 2768 is his. He posted opinions under my question and mytake.

[In_Trance]

Talk to her