my online date stood me up.
at my job, none of my coworkers are interested in grabbing coffee with me outside of work.
I've met a few people online trying to make new friends. None of them ever saw me for a second time.
I attended kickboxing class for 4 months and only probably 2 girls excluding the instructor spoke to me. Everyone else just ran home after class ended.
I try to go to bars to make friends. but I just sit there all alone with a drink as I watched everyone else laugh with their groups. Nobody looked at me.
Guys never show any interest in me in real life.
I live in a city overpopulated with people but just can't manage to meet anyone. I'm not unlikable by the way. I'm a pretty good person, maybe not the most exciting person. But really a nice person.
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Join a club or another bs class for something. Even if its something different like crocheting. Plenty of online ads if you search for it
I have friends who have gotten unnecessary part time jobs just to meet people. Part-time bartender will 100% introduce you to people
Having convos and keeping people entertained is part of their job
I did join a kickboxing class for 4 months. I made no friends. I might've made 2 acquaintances, but no friends.
Do weekend bartending you will have an entire friend group not one or two people.
i went to meetup. com for a few drink socials. I just got a few numbers a night and nobody would hit me up again. Its just a waste of time.
i am not a sexy girl, i don't fit into bartending requirements.
My brother in law owns a bar and his bartenders are definitely not models. Its not a Hooters. Just an idea i know about personally
Facebook groups will introduce you to a lot I joined one for my epilepsy and made lots of friends , some nearby
I have joined facebook groups too. Other than the fact that some of them are just spam groups. Every single time someone would post "hey... i need friends to get mani/ pedicures with..." there would be litreally 40-60 girls who would say "I am interested!!!". I live in a very overpopulated city with way too many people. There is just way too much competition for anything.
As someone who is shy, I prefer to meet up with 3 people max. Not 8 or 13 people all at once. When there's too many people, we are all just competing with each other's attention.
I live in NYC, and trust me, there are no chubby girls as bartenders here. Everyone is fit and looks great.
Support groups are your best option then. Everyone befriends and supports.
My mom joined an atkins group (not relevant to you) that met in person and made friends
I just came home from a guy who stood me up. He agreed to something that he never wanted. And he didn't bother to cancel. I've had a terrible experience meeting people from online. I've quit for good now. It just makes me lose faith in humanity. why are some people so cruel and inconsiderate of other people's time?
A support group won't stand you up they welcome everybody
where do I find those?
www.purewow.com/.../amp
thanks for the link. but i've actually heard about all those suggestions in that link. I will check out citygirlswhowalk but I've tried the rest of the other options- they don't work.
Do a weight loss club and obviously im not trying to be a dick
didn't i tell you that i've done that?
i've done kickboxing class 4 times a week for 4 months. Made no friends. People in my city are unfriendly, unsocial, career oriented, they just rush off to go home after class ends.
getting a dog would be a good idea. it eases loneliness and also i can meet people at the dogpark
I live in NJ im not in nyc often but i know what you mean everybody is busy. Weekend job where people hang out is your best bet , good luck
So is dog
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you should be glad you're not here often. People here are so unfriendly , rushed, busy, walk so fast, absolutely no space here. If you make eye contact with someone on the street, their eyes would quickly dart away like you're a weirdo. Or if you waved hi at a stranger, they would literally ignore you. After gym class ends, everyone just runs to their locker room to undress to go home. Maybe only 1 or 2 people would stay to chat with the instructor. And usually these convos never tend to beyond acquaintanceship.
I've been thinking about working in the emergency room in order to get access to more police officers and firefighters. But I'm not a registered nurse but just a licensed practical nurse. ERs usually don't hire LPNS.
I actually go to college in hicksville. I go to a diner close to the school for breakfast sometimes. Customers would know the diner waitress by name. Many customers would say hi to each other because they've seen each other so many times before. The same few people getting morning coffee every Friday morning. Its easy to make friends anywhere else besides NYC. NYC simply does not have a community like that anywhere.
hicksville in Long island NEW YORK
damn im applying to medical school , good luck
Nursing *
I'm not interested in doctors. Doctors tend to be too stuck up and nerdy. I can't stand them. Doctors also tend to date doctors rather than nurses. I tend to be way more interested in police man or firefighters.