They pretty much m base their love off the dumb and painful things you put up with and allow or they base it off what you have done for them. You have given them money, you allow them to drive around in your car, you cook for them, you go to work while they sit at home on social media posting about waiting for you to get home to do whatever with you rather it’s something sexual or they want you to cook. You are their listening ear, their therapist but they are none of those things to you. They’re just being good in bed and you guys might just happen to have a child together. It’s almost like they cannot even tell you why they love you for YOU but rather just the fact you overextend yourself. Always. It feels more like you’re being used rather than love like what they say and make you believe. They tell you things like “You’re the realest woman I ever came around. You’ve done this and that.” But they never mention how great you are within.
Why does it seem as if with some guys you have to struggle with them and allow them to put you through the worse in order for them to love you right?
