Is she an angel or is she using him?

[Anonymous]

She is often mistaken for his nurse but they're in-fact a couple. They are very popular on social media making video's together for youtube. She is his fiancee.

She's an Angel sent from heaven for this man

She's using him somehow, they probably don't even have sex

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Wow a lot of mixed results. Its impossible to know for sure.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3BHXf3oZUhs

[CrimsonAngel09]

Meine Gott the poll.

I believe they are married now, so not a fiancee anymore. I really don't see her using him, as she does care for him when most wouldn't.

But what if it was the other way around? What if she was handicapped and he was fine? Would people say the same thing or think nothing of it because he's a guy?

I see this scheiße all over Facebook in the comments:

Guy is handicapped: She's after his money.

Woman is handicapped: Aw that's sweet, he's taking care of her.

Meine Gott.

[Asker]

Most of the time when you see people this heavily disabled with a pretty wife or husband its b/c a freak accident happened early in the marriage that made them that way. Like soldiers from War coming back to their wives all fucked up. When you see people like this choose to get involved and marry under these conditions from the very start it's suspect no matter the gender. The same way an 85 year old billionaire marrying a 25 year old hottie would be suspect. It doesn't mean they aren't really in love maybe i'm wrong and this is next level love.

[Asker]

I hope someone is keeping an eye on her when the lights go off and the spot-line is gone... for his safety.

[Asker]

"spot-light"

[Anonymous]

I wonder about her too. They do have sex. But I don't know I always felt something was a little off like maybe she’s waiting for him to pass away for sympathy or life insurance or something (although there’s this new treatment that is going to extend his life a lot).

[Opinion Owner]

I mean the question is, would their relationship still be/appear as happy without the social attention. Like if they didn’t use social media at all and didn’t get attention for the fact that she is involved with a man who has muscular atrophy. I guess there’s no way to know unless you were them, or maybe if you knew them personally.

[Opinion Owner]

I remember him before all this because of his first book, which I read in middle school. Thought he was so funny and positive despite the fact that at the time, he went to bed every night thinking he might not wake up and see another day. I do feel that he feels genuinely happy with her, so maybe it’s best left uncovered if there is some selfish reason to it. One would think it’s a stretch so say she’s doing it for attention when she’s his caregiver, they plan on having children, etc. But it is possible she is a narcissist. And like others have said, it does rub me the wrong way that she shows off her body in videos. I mean, good for her and she looks good, but I have been unnerved very early on. I used to be subscribed to their channel for camaraderie since I think Shane is a likable and positive presence, but I unsubscribed because there is something that rubs me the wrong way. All I can say is I hope I’m wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Either way, I can picture her being burnt out by being his caretaker at some point, especially if/when they have a kid. Unfortunately he’s pretty severely disabled, and I do hope it doesn’t cause stress or burnout in the future, but I can see that happening over time and/or with a baby in the picture

[Asker]

yeah, its hard to say. They're trying to have a baby this summer so I'm thinking she's actually in it for the long haul. He might just be the luckiest man alive.

[Asker]

you know minus the horrible disease he has an all

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you’re right. Maybe it is true love because I think about two years ago is when he got into that life extending treatment. And she’s still around two years later. I can’t deny that I just get not good vibes, that’s literally the only reason I unsubscribed and I can’t put it into words. I truly do hope it’s as happy a relationship as it seems and for the long term.

[TheFlak38]

"They are very popular on social media " And you said it all right there. Because that is the most important thing for women. It's the billions of likes and comments and messages and emojis women get on their hundreds of apps elevating their vagina to the most astronomical heights. She doesn't give a shit about this man. She only cares about her daily attention dose. For a woman that's more important than sex and money and everything else in her life. So that's how she is using him.

[Ptrmbrs88]

She's using him. It's obvious. Maybe he's got a large bundle of cash stashed away somewhere, or rich parents who are about to die or something.

[Anonymous]

the poll options are both correct, even if she is using him, nobody else is willing to be there with him, so doesn't matter the reason, what matters is that he has someone. All the people who talk shit would rather him be alone because nobody would want him realistically and you bash on anyone who tries for whatever their own reasons, fame attention, whatever. I'm sure he prefers to be with someone than alone regardless of the reasons or YOUR opinions.

[Asker]

I agree... whether she's using him or not at the end of the day doesn't really matter. It is better that he have someone, but I would still like to believe that they're in love for real. I just highly doubt it.

[Apulu_Imback]

She can be anything, we shouldn't judge them without knowing them personally.

[Anonymous]

She may genuinely love him but either way she wants to make herself look good