Girls, What things do guys do that really hurt a girl?

[Anonymous]

Aside from cheating and being abusive to her.

[Anemone978]

Lying to you
Ignoring you
Not hugging you when you are crying
Saying you are suffocating them because you want to talk to them everyday
Not telling you why they are mad
Gaslighting you
Denying you sex
Not coming to bed at night
Not telling you when they leave
Many stupid little things like these hurt, when the one you loves treats you like you aren't that important.

[itsalyssaagain]

So like you said cheating and abusing.


I think one of the most hurtful things for most women is inconsistency. If your man is all about you and then suddenly he shuts you off.


It tends to happen a lot because men tend to deal with things alone due to society’s expectations.


But as women, when we really care for someone, we’re nurturing and we want to be there through everything. So it hurts when we can tell somethings wrong and we get shut off.

[jennifer_bloom]

If a guy ghosts me or acts like I don't matter when I've spent time with him or been kind to him.

[Anonymous]

Most men lie constantly. If you can find one who is 100% honest, you might have found yourself a keeper.

[Asker]

But women kind of don’t like the truth. Like you have to lie and tell her she looks good in that dress etc

[itsalyssaagain]

Yeah sis. I don’t trust a MAN on this planet lol. They really all do lie.

[Asker]

@itsalyssaagain I don’t see how women are any better

[Asker]

All women do is use men

[itsalyssaagain]

Use them for what?

[Asker]

@itsalyssaagain resources, security and everything. Even if women are ‘independent’

[itsalyssaagain]

I’ve yet to meet a guy with resources who wants to do things for me lol

[Poppymarie]

Not caring about her sexual needs. Some of my exes were pretty selfish in the bedroom and it was one of the most hurtful things that happened between us.

[Poppymarie]

For example, one of my exes told me it was gross to eat me out. That has stuck with me and affected me ever since, even though my current partner is amazing and has told me otherwise. It’s hard to heal from those things.

[Badkitty41]

Lie. Lying is the probably the only thing that hurts actually. Cheating is superficial abusive is weak and shouldn't be considered a man to begin with. But Lying takes the cake in hurt

[Justmeagain1]

Use them for sexual pleasure or gratification and knowing how a women feels about them but still doing it anyway. It makes us feel like we are not valued in the way that we want you to see our value.

[FictionalCharacter]

1) harass/sexually harass

2) lie

3) gaslight

4) breadcrumb

5) manipulate

6) victim blaming

7) temper tantrum’s

8) cheats

[Simslover92]

Ghosting would be a big one for me.
Ignoring what I say would be another one. It's so hurtful when I am being ignored.
Lying of course.

[Adaeva]

Guys don't harm girls. Girls harm themselves by getting tattoos and then fucking Tyrone, Chad, and other hot guys out of their league.

[mackenzieeeee]

Not being a gentalmen really. If you like her treat her like a queen. If she likes you she will treat you like a king.

[Anonymous]

Ignoring you.
Let down you.
Being cold without any reason.

[Anonymous]

getting lead on or dragged along, strung along, something to that effect. always feels fucking terrible.

[Wild_princess]

Lack of communication, not showing affection

[fonduegirl]

Not respecting her boundaries and decisions

[Babygirl_S]

Virgin shaming, making a girl feel inadequate and ghosting.

[juicybooty85]

They cheat on us and flirt around with other females or they say mean hurtful things to us when things don’t go their way

[Jazzy54]

Lying.