If the same guys who show interest in my hot friend also show interest in me, does that mean we're probably on the same 'level' of attractiveness? Because we could get the same guys, right?
Eh. Somewhat.
Reality is usually that guys aren't going after the hottest girl. In fact it isn't a direct correleation.
Rather its about meeting a criteria of attractive. If we assume that cutoff is at a 7/10 in most cases and most 9/10 guys would be happy going home with a 7, but also happy going home with a 9, then we can't use it as a real measurement.
It does however, quite undeniably, say that you are both attractive to these guys. And whether you or her are more hot? Who knows. Might be you too you know.
Not really, I would say. If we look at it the other way around, I've been into guys who are cute, and I've been into guys who are model-hot. They aren't the same level of attractiveness to me, but in each case, a combination of traits/circumstances drew me to the guy.
Someone has to meet a base level of attractiveness for me to get to know their personality. They don't have to be ridiculously good looking. But they could be, and that would only be a plus.
Looks are just a plus once you get beyond a certain base level of looks.
It's the same with guys (I think.)
Depends, if they just want to fuck, it all depends how low they are willing to go, the lowest they can go would technically mean that's your level (just playing)
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No. I could be "into" your friend because she has a nice butt, but I'm into you because we had a great talk at the museum. Apples and oranges.
Maybe? I say this because if I am looking, I will approach a table of girls and ask whichever one seems most open. She might or might not be the most conventionally attractive. She might be the Plain Jane of the group.
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