Is it normal to be jealous of the girls my boyfriend has had sex with?

[Anonymous]

Like I know it's silly given it's his past. But I can't help but wonder if they were better. I've never asked because I'm scared he might say they were.

Should I ask?

[OlderAndWiser]

The first sexual partner I had was the best ever, until the second one came along. Then she was the best, until the third one came along. Get the idea. For most of us, if we want a relationship and not just a sexual decathlon, the sexual partner we have right now if the best partner ever.

[Asker]

I sure hope you're right about that. He's never said to me, oh you're the best I've ever had which is why I am worried about it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would never make that comment to my fiancée, as it only draws attention to the existence of m previous partners. I have never had a good outcome from telling a current partner about her predecessors.

[Asker]

Oh. Well I'm just curious I guess. I want to know everything about my partner including his past encounters. It wouldn't change anything for me if it turned out I wasn't the best but it turns out I am because I asked him and he said I was.

[Andres77]

It's normal but it's not healthy. If you can't handle it then don't ask. I, on the other hand, always enjoyed getting all the details from any and every encounter a girlfriend/wife ever had.

[Asker]

I asked and he said I was the best. I'm like you though. I want to know the details of every encounter he has had.

[Andres77]

If you're going to judge someone from the stories then it just brings conflict. I want to know because it helps me find other things that she's enjoyed but I hadn't tried yet

[Andres77]

Plus I enjoyed listening to any stories about sex so it was a win win

[Asker]

Yes thats why I want to know. I want to please him in the best way I can. Knowing what they did and how they did it would help I feel if that's what he liked.

[Andres77]

Then he's got to know that you won't judge him for his past

[Andres77]

DM me for my technique if you want

[Summeroflove]

He shouldn’t be having sex with other women while being with you

[ohsheeT]

Stop it come on . This is the Here and Now. And I guarantee you that is the last thing on his mind you're worried about stuff that not even you can control or should even care about


Let pretend for one moment that they were all better than you

Now what? No what are you going to do

In stead of working about who better. Why do you. Just worry about how your going to become the best
And I hope you always remember this there is more ways than 1 to have sex and if your working about all of this. Because your not experienced or your shy. Don't worry that's not what it is all about it's about something way deeper so be honest with your self first why you really feel the need to know this and if your shy or scared you haven't had enough experience. Send me a DM I can tell you some thing that are so easy and really not doing much of anything but you will have him going crazy and you can take it hot it will get intense it will get passionate it it'll get a little bit rough Maybe but you will take him to the Moon if you want to it is very very simple

[comekitty]

I don't know - I've never felt jealous of any boyfriend's or now husband's ex girlfriends but maybe I'm not the normal one?

I figure they're ex's for a reason - otherwise they'd still be with him.

I'd never ask.

One - it's not something I'd think of doing, like I said ex girlfriends don't enter my mind.

Two - I really dont care enough.

Three - I'd be offended if he started comparing me to past relationships.

Just my thoughts.

Wishing you the best. 🙂

[Rockstarrrrr]

He's with you now, not them... No need to be so insecure and have fragile femininity... Also guys really hate it when a girl is not confident and keeps comparing herself to other girls.. It's a huge turn off... wait a minute, that sounds different xD

[spartan55]

Girl, what were you thinking asking him that? Of course he said you were. You also showed him that you are extremely insecure and he will have to deal with that as long as you are together. Most guys can only put up with so much.

[Tyrael]

It's normal but no good will come from asking. Just accept he's with you and not them, so you must be doing something right.

[MementoMori777]

I'm sure thinking of it bringing jealousy is somewhat normal but I wouldn't ask him cause that will probably just make shit worse

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Unless he's comparing you to them, you need to get over this.

[FilmGuy93]

That seems to be a pretty normal feeling, yeah

[Anonymous]

They probably WERE better, and he probably wishes he were back with them, and you're not good in bed. He's only with you for a temporary place to put his penis. Feel better?

[Asker]

No that definitely made me feel worse lol but it's cool he already told me I was the best

[Opinion Owner]

I was being facetious and showing you how you're feeding your own insecurities.

[Opinion Owner]

And you think that he's telling the truth? He probably told them the same thing.

[Asker]

I doubt it. He's very blunt and honest.

[Opinion Owner]

Those are two different things, and you don't have to be either one to be the other. You asked him, got your answer, so be happy with it. You'll believe what you want to believe, and you choose to believe him.

[zagor]

He's with you now, isn't he?

[Anonymous]

i assume he lost his virginity between ages 16-18

[Asker]

I think 18 or 19 but he hasn't been with that many girls. I think 3 or 4 girls before me.

[Opinion Owner]

the typical common range for teens, if it doesn't happen in teenage years for people, then its expected by the beginning of 20s at least

[In_Trance]

Toxic femininity