The change I went through to become who I am today. I struggled greatly with anxiety and depression for most of my life, and it didn’t help that everyone in my family was the same way and it effected me greatly because I was the youngest.
Some events happened during the 8th grade that really took a blow to my mental health and did a snow ball effect all the way through Highschool and I started getting into drugs and legal trouble. Senior year and the summer after graduation it got real bad. I was in serious legal trouble and I thought about kms all day every day. I was truly in my rock bottom. Thankfully I had many people helping me pull my way out of the hole I dug myself. Even tho I had multiple people helping me I still have to give credit to myself for becoming who I am today because at the end of the day, the main thing that helped me was me! I wanted to get better I wanted to hold myself to higher standards I wanted to be the best I can be and now I’m 4 months sober of everything, got a stable living situation and two stable jobs,(a full time job with overtime and a part time job that goes straight into savings. I bettered myself so much that I can now be the one to hold out my hand and lift people back on their feet!10 Reply
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yHonestly they would be disappointed. I had really big dreams. Yes I got a masters degree and yes I work for a coal company but what I wanted to do isn’t what I’m doing now. I said I wanted to be married this year and had the exact date picked out. Well that’s not going to work because I’m still single. I do like this one guy and I don't know how to tell him as we don’t talk a bunch and I don’t see him. I might just say f*** it and choose him as a flight instructor teacher but I’m afraid I wouldn’t pay much attention. I’m hopeful and my friends now that. My younger self would be proud of a couple things but not everything and I’m not going to lie about that either.
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+1 yHow many jobs I've had so far, and the different things I learnt in different industries, and that I can drive. Still don't own my own dream car though, not even a dream sports car, I'm not into those. Lol. Not as a car of my own. But back to the question, my CV (resume) and that I drive since I got my driver's at 18 or was it 19 I think it was. Anyways 🙃
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+1 ySimply how awesome I have become. Probably lol
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+1 yI think my old self would be impressed by how religious and humble I am.
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u +1 yThe self-confidence that I developed!
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+1 yHow I have changed in terms of shyness. I used to be extremely shy and couldn’t even ask teachers for help or to go to the toilet at school because I was scared, now I feel I can talk to new people relatively easily
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+1 yProbably my career history. That was the one we didn't see coming. The volunteering, charity, that stuff was kind of expected, but the pride wall, 20 years ago I'd never have guessed it'd look like that.
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+1 yI achieved and exceeded some of my dreams as a child. But I failed at others. Mostly my career path would have made my younger self pretty impressed
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+1 yProbably by the fact of how trustworthy and reliable I can be.
She would be able to just close her eyes and relax.
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+1 yWell I could go back in time to 8 years ago I would tell my 11-year-old self that the boy we had a huge crush on ended up becoming our boyfriend
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+1 yThat I’m a decent human despite all the things that life has put you through
20 ReplyI would be impressed by how I turned out so different from what I thought I’d be like at 22 I did a 180 from the childhood vision I had of myself at 22. Life really is full of suprises!.
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+1 yHow far I've come and the things I've achieved. I'm literally living what I prayed for and it's even better than what I've envisioned.
10 Reply881 opinions shared on Dating topic. they'd be pretty disappointed. dont think they'd be impressed by anything
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+1 yProbably the guy I managed to pull. My fiancé is the best.
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Hopefully my maturity, intelligence and the very happy family that I've help to create.
10 Reply18.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. My career, personal life, my travels around the world.
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+1 yInteresting question.
Frankly... Nothing comes to mind. If anything, they'd displeased that I don't have a job.10 Reply 366 opinions shared on Dating topic. My age.
I'd have never thought that I'd live this damned long.
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Me escaping a total shithole back to Germany. By myself.
Dedication. Focus. Stay low. I call it
Devotion
I made it.
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+1 yProbably my perseverance. Also my sense of my style lol I always wanted to be stylish when I was a kid.
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+1 yMy confidence
I was insecure when I was younger
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. That I am still alive and not in jail. My younger self was not the self I would want to be today….
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+1 yI think they'd be impressed that I'm not living in a cardboard box or a mental institution.
10 Reply Younger self: I wish I had all your knowledge; I can play and chase girl all day, and not worry about academic performance now.
00 ReplyHow I have stuck to my Beliefs un wavering for the past 43 years, the stupidity of humanity lost at trying to make me hate myself...
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThe fact that I'm still not strong enough to end my suffering
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yThat I’m still around 😊 I’m also much bigger than when I was younger and stronger
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+1 yThat I'm actually alive 😂
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+1 yThat I still haven't ended myself lmao
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+1 yThey wouldn’t be impressed.
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+1 ymy faith, my discovery that Jesus is real
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literally nothing.
10 Reply13.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. My very attractive and sweet wife.
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+1 yThe sheer amount of shit I've fucked up
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+1 yThat I'm still alive.
20 Reply10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. He would probably shoot himself.
10 Reply673 opinions shared on Dating topic. That I never got married and had children.
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+1 yHow I didn’t end up losing my mind
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+1 yThat I could finally grow a big ass beard!
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+1 yMy hair and wisdom
10 Reply My juicy glutes
01 Reply797 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nothing. They'd be impressed by nothing.
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+1 ySadly nothing.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThat I’m still alive
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yMy net worth.
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+1 yOur ass.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMy big dick
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Opinion Owner+1 yJust kidding. He (me?) would be impressed by what I've accomplished in life. Also pretty disappointed on that same note though
1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. My work
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