What is the best dating tip you would give to your younger self?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

If you can't have the very best, the second best is not a bad option either.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your opinion.

[Jersey2]

Nothing, I did just fine. But then we didn’t use online dating so it was different than today. Today I would probably shy away from dating as women seem well used and that’s a turnoff.

[Asker]

I think I know what you mean. There’s nothing like meeting/dating in the real world!

[richardcory]

It never hurts to ask, and being turned down isn't the end of the world.

[Asker]

Thank you! That’s a wise advise.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not the best tip probably but to actually date.

[Asker]

I think I know what you mean. To put oneself out there. Thank you!

[boggboss]

I'm happy with who I found so nothing lol

[Asker]

You do realize that you added absolutely no value to this question!

[boggboss]

If thats how u feel fair enough lol 👍🏽

[Asker]

Not how I feel but the reality as it is!

[boggboss]

Not at all just on the baises that we are having a conversation shows their was value in what I said otherwise u wouldn't have felt a need to respond

[Asker]

You clearly can’t figure out the kind of response I’m giving you. If you had any value addition, I would have acknowledged you in a positive manner. And the fact you just keep sticking to your non sense shows you haven’t learned a thing in life. You girlfriend that you so easily got must be proud of you but think again, how long will she stick when a more learnt and mature man comes along.

[boggboss]

Well we are 6 years in so I'm sure it will be for a long while so ty I guess that you are still interacting is quite funny also to a comment that claims to have added no value if not for u myself at least 😅

[Asker]

You are a classic example of someone whom a kid asks what it that (pointing to a cloud) and you say “I don’t know I have never looked up in my life so I don’t know and I don’t care lol”

by the way do you know what will happen to you tomorrow? You don’t so how can you be sure your whatever relationship will last a long while. It won’t. Think of me when it breaks for whatever reason your or her destiny unfolds in front of you. Peace out!

[boggboss]

Why would I think of u lol the same way u will forget me after a few hours u must have a inflated opinion of yourself to believe I would carry this interaction past a day

And the same way we have no clue what the future holds why would I assume its will just break if thats how u think u must have been really hurt in the past and not healed if any future relationship u have u think it will end any day at that point why even look for companionship lol

[linka_pat307]

Love yourself and don't overdo that stuff

[In_Trance]

take every opportunity you can

[Asker]

What are your thoughts about guys who let go of a good woman in hopes that they will find a much better woman?

[In_Trance]

If they let them go, there's something missing

[Asker]

Hmmm.. I understand now. Thanks for clarifying.

[Simslover92]

Be patient.

[Asker]

Thanks. Do you mean to be patient when conflicts arise or when the relationship is challenged and to patiently solve both?

[Simslover92]

I mean be patient when wanting to go into the dating world. Don't rush things. Just let things happen organically. I tried to rush into it and got my heart broken.

[Asker]

Got it. Thanks for clarifying.

I’m sorry that happened to you. Similar thing happened to me. I had to rush (let him know how I feel for him) because circumstances made me to and I think I have scared him off.

[Simslover92]

NP. Sorry similar happened to you. It's definitely a learning lesson.

[Asker]

In my case, I knew he likes me back but he never replied to my confession.
My lesson is to let things go if they are because if the guy is interested, he will make it happen.
Wish that good things happen to you and me!

[Simslover92]

Same here!

[riverrat3]

Go for it