Are you more of a homebody or social butterfly?

Question

I am definitely a home body if i had to say i dont really like people that much 🥴😅

Investigator · Accepted Answer

The goal is obviously to be more outgoing, because that builds social networks (the in-person kind, not the "scrolling endlessly for hours on your smartphone kind"), but the economics of travel right now largely don't agree with that objective. If you want to go out and have fun, but you're trying not to go into debt and keep expenses down, something has to give.

It's one thing to go out and have fun--if you live in a big city and everything is within walking distance--but it's quite another if you have to account for transportation time, including traffic and fuel costs. The need to accomodate and plan around that initial first step is going to considerably disincentivize any extracurricular activities that aren't literally whatever is closest and most available.

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

I'm definitely a homebody. I went to a convention yesterday I was there for 3 hours nd I was so exhausted I wanted to get home asap. I've always had difficulties with my energy because I'm autistic but whe I was young I could push it more but now I'm older I really hve to be careful. And I've also had a burnout which makes me even more cautious. I have a few days where I feel like everything is going my way and I can be very loose and social but that's very rare. Most days I just need my rest^, lie in bed watch some good entertainment ^^

Tephra · Accepted Answer

I am both, but I lean towards being a homebody. I love staying at home. My work requires me to travel a lot which has made me learn to love different activities outside. However I am very particular on what I go to do for the day, especially events that take me a while to travel to.

Being at home however, is much more preferable. I love being rugged up in blankets, watching movies, reading books, drinking some nice herbal tea, socialising online with friends, who are homebodies like me (lol). We often stream movies while we are rugged up at home, great times!

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

I’m a bit of both. I’m only a social butterfly when I want to be charming, like making a good first impression. I can entertain myself by reading a book or watching Netflix, so I like being alone as well. I tend to get moody when I haven’t gone out in a while though, but I don’t mind going out alone by myself.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am an introverted homebody by nature but I have forced myself to behave more extroverted most of my adult life. I understand all the benefits of being moors social and have poor myself in positions where I had no choice but to be extroverted.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I’m both. I can be a hermit and a butterfly when I feel like it.

Lliam · Answer

I used to be a social person, always going places and doing things with friends. I was always on the go.

Now I'm more of a home body, although I do enjoy engaging in conversations when I'm around interesting people. I just don't care for crowds, noise, hilarity, excitement and nonsense anymore.

glennos89 · Answer

I prefer to be alone over being a social butterfly. I hate going to busy places like grocery stores and public places.

I do like to go to good music events sometimes but sadly the only way Im able to enjoy them is when I get wasted enough to a point that the music can penetrate my mind and becomes stronger then me being aware of of all these people that surround me. When I'm sober I can't be in sync with the music because off all these people arround me which makes me feel uncomfortable. Sober I just lack the capability to shut myself off from everyone surrounding me which is very unnoying and unpleasant

Sparkie460 · Answer

I talk to strangers almost every day. I can be standing in line and I'll strike up a conversation with a stranger

EmmaMary · Answer

Truthfully speaking I'm very much 50/50.

I obviously very much enjoy having my wonderful precious family (husband and our two children) life.

However with time permitting I also enjoy having an active social life within our village community.

ohsheeT · Answer

You know it feels like I have to deal with people everyday and I mean for me I like being home don't get me wrong I mean I used to go out every once in a while I don't even do that now but one of these days I'll start again maybe I just get more things done if I'm at home or wait a minute now I take that back I think that's bullshit maybe I should start going back out again I got more accomplished I think

Leapfrog00 · Answer

Girl, I'm with you. People terrify me! And then there's the ones that ask question after question, and you think they're taking an interest in you, but here, they are just laughing at you on the inside.

Maybe if I didn't live in an area with drug addicts and drug dealers, I'd be a little more sociable, but these people around here do things that will make the hair on your head stand up and run off!

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Homebody all the way. People suck.

BrookeAZ90 · Answer

I was the social butterfly type through college. Then I kinda turned into a homebody. Then after covid I got tired of being at home so I've kinda found the right balance now of going out some but not a lot but not getting bored being at home like I was during covid.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I can do both but I'm more of an out going social butterfly.

MementoMori777 · Answer

If by homebody you mean lone wolf then I'm a lone wolf, the only way to attack me is from the front.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Gonna be honest it kind of depends on my mood, most days I like just chilling at home mostly because I have an tiring job that sometimes requires me to travel around.

But I do enjoying going out every now and then to. Like I said just depends on my mood sometimes I want go into hermit home and hide in the house and sometimes I'm feeling social and wanna go out amongst people.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I am both… it just depends on the people I’m socialising with. I do genuinely enjoy spending time with my loved ones and I will take the initiative to do so, so I can be considered a social butterfly in that sense. However I do feel like it is mentally exhausting and draining to be social with people I do not necessarily feel comfortable around lol, so in that case I’m a homebody

Sam161 · Answer

Most of my friends are married have their own lives to live we don't go bar hopping anymore and since I don't shoot pool leagues anymore I don't have a reason to go out so I pretty much stay at home every night and watch TV alone

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I'm a social butterfly for work. I don't want to have to do that in my personal life. I have a 14-room house a great garden and rescue kittens, who are amazing. I don't need to leave my house to be entertained.

Screenwriter · Answer

I do a lot on my own, but I have friends and I go out to events like festivals, museums, a film or two. Not a social butterfly, but not stuck at home either.

SawerBrown · Answer

I've learned to be a social butterfly st Home so I can cook for others look sfter them and enjoy a good time with friends without going out. I can feed my friends good food and drink fir half of what it would cost at a restaurant of club

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm a social homedy... more like a night owl, rather than a butterfly

electromagnetic · Answer

I’m a social butterfly.  I used to be one of the children that was kidnappable.  Even now, i can start a convo with anyone.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Social butterfly when possible.

Sarahnah · Answer

I'm a bit surprised at the lopsided results but at the same time, it makes sense. Nobody on this cursed site goes out much 😭

JaxiCats · Answer

I’ve gotten to the point that to many people and opinions stress me out but I also can’t go without talking to someone

kobeni · Answer

i think my anime name & profile answers that question

Vikkrram · Answer

Pov :- Maturity is when you realize that when you grow up you like being alone

OldWomanBySoul · Answer

I doubt most of us would be here if we were social butterflies

asphaltrhymes · Answer

Homebody in the real world, social butterfly in an ideal world 🌍💘

Bárbara1402 · Answer

I consider myself both depending on my mood and context

Yannishka · Answer

Home. It's not that I don't like people. My social battery just drains quickly.

ariadneR · Answer

Definitely a homebody, and like you I don't like people. They're annoying af

Spade_01 · Answer

Definitely a social butterfly but i need my time alone at times as well.

zagor · Answer

I've become a pretty big homebody the last couple years. Just not motivated to go out much anymore.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I don't hate people in general but I just prefer solitude right now. Never been a party girl and never will be.

gangster123 · Answer

I think I like to make friends and when not with family I can’t sit at home.. alone.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I’m a social butterfly until I hear people talk then reflect why I didn’t just stay home

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Homebody. I enjoy being social but I have limits.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Hummm interesting im a bit of a home body myself

SunnyRS · Answer

I am more of a homebody too.  The amount of relaxation I get at home can't be compared with anything else.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Social butterfly. I got that award many times at G@G.

AmeerX · Answer

Well, it depends. With strangers I am a homeboy. With friends I am a social butterfly

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like being a Homebody

OG956 · Answer

I'm happy alone (but sometimes I like to be around people I know and that shares same interests as me)

Anonymous · Answer

Homebody. I love to sleep and stay at home watching favourite drama serials and listening music.

Ptrmbrs88 · Answer

Homebody. I hate socialising, and I hate travelling.

EaterPeter · Answer

How hoa hold right there cow girl, well, I like cow girl 😉

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely social butterfly.. I love going clubs meeting new girls...😊

Jerre · Answer

I like to mingle

Anonymous · Answer

Home body, I don't like people, I don't like anything

yourloveistoxic · Answer

Homebody. Would love to stay indoors of my home but it's chaos here smh.

Yellovv · Answer

I like to go out mostly but sometimes nice to stay home to get relax..

ShesRad80 · Answer

im an ambivert so a decent balance

Adogdog · Answer

Mostly a Homebody.

dudeinohio · Answer

Homebody

tzdc21 · Answer

Home body. Without a doubt.

Prince_09 · Answer

I'm also homebody like you ☺️

LiamJHayden · Answer

I enjoy meeting new people.

LavLavLuv · Answer

I’m a mix of homebody + social 🦋

Minahh · Answer

More of a homebody but I like going out too

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Homebody 1000000 percent

Anonymous · Answer

Somewhere in between.

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