What can my family do about my sister literally dating an illegal immigrant? Isn’t it dangerous for them to be dating? Why do you think she likes him?

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My sister is dating an illegal immigrant from Mexico and he speaks okay English actually but he isn’t a citizen. He builds the roofs of houses and was hired for cheaper labor. He has his own car and has been here for a year and a half.
My sister is way too beautiful. She has options and I’m sure of better options but instead wants to date an illegal immigrant? Why?

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

She probably likes him because he is charming, hard working and probably has other attractive qualities that people prefer in a partner. Being an illegal immigrant is sort of dangerous, and he could get deported if the officials find out. I hope he realizes that and does something to legalize his citizenship. You cannot dictate who your sister should and should not have a relationship with, what matters is that she is happy with him. You can voice out your opinions, but at the end of the day, it’s her decision.

Why do you not like him? Is it because of his citizenship status? Or his ethnicity?

totallygeneric · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to be an illegal immigrant either in all fairness. If he hasn't said or done bad anything to her, who cares? What matters is that she's happy.

razelove · Accepted Answer

She's probably dating him because he works hard, has his shit together and a 6-pack. He wouldn't be here if he didn't have a visa, like it's possible with someone else having the ownership of the car and attending to all the details. You don't get that as a roofer though. He sounds legit.
More so it sounds like you have a siscon thing going on there man :/ If you believe it's a mistake, let her make her own mistakes, women get hurt or knocked up just as bad from white men too. You don't have to date Mexican women, and that's your own choice there, it ends when trying to push it onto others.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He’s probably fucking your sister like a porn star. Imagine his confidence, fleeing a country and finding a beautiful woman who’s into you in another country as an illegal citizen. He probably feels like the man. He’s living a dream. He’s giving your sister the time of her life.

slatyb · Answer

Presumably she's an adult. There's nothing they can do. He sounds like a very hard-working man who could make a terrific partner for her.

Anonymous · Answer

How is that dangerous for her? Let her be happy. I see no problem other than a racist brother.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I don't really see the problem. Dude speaks the language and works. I get being overprotective and you really symbolize that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe because he is nice and not a lazy slob like the guys she is usually exposed to.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

By the sound of it he won't be illegal much longer.

riverrat3 · Answer

He may treat with the respect she deserves, and it sounds like he is not afraid to work, let her be happy

Irishgirl02 · Answer

Sounds like a good hard working man.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Why’s it dangerous? Are you dumb.

provokeesmokee · Answer

How about you stop being a racist gringo?

anon1903 · Answer

She probably thinks that's true love

TrillXHippy · Answer

Illegal immigrants doesn’t mean dangerous

In_Trance · Answer

what's the danger?

What can my family do about my sister literally dating an illegal immigrant? Isn’t it dangerous for them to be dating? Why do you think she likes him?

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