Guys do you think it is a good decision to avoid dating a woman in her 30s that would not date me when she was younger?

[DarkLegacy]

I think it is the principal of the matter especially if she dated such guys that could have posed a threat to me. Also it is the case she is changing tac just because her looks fade. Would you do the same

[Anonymous]

I think ultimately when it comes to dating you got to do what's best for you.

Like can you do better than this woman? Are you a better dating prospect now than you were then?

My husband revealed when we went to his high-school reunion that when he was in high-school that few of the girls there would date him but having seeing these girls thirsting over him and flirting with him they clearly would now. My husband is 30, most of his female classmates did not like me, mostly the single ones, seemed mostly a case of jealousy because they are overweight, divorced or on an unhappy marraige and I'm 20 years old, thin and very happy in my life right now.

[DarkLegacy]

Exactly that is what im on about they are bitter they did not get him, which is there fault, if they wanted him they should have gone for him earlier on. He did right marrying you. These women are toxic and that is what im doing avoiding women like that.

[Anemone978]

I wouldn't date someone that wouldn't date me in the past because that is like being picked last.. it would be fuck you bitch.. 🤣🤣

[DarkLegacy]

i have too much self worth, but it is also because i want younger women. Besides it is for all the reasons outlined in the question

[Anemone978]

Well that is a good idea.. but dating younger doesn't mean the women are any better lol

[DarkLegacy]

Maybe not

[Anonymous]

I think this is a choice you have to make. I would make her work for it. The FACT is she rejected you. Why would her opinion have changed? Maybe it hasn't. Maybe she just considers her options to be less now. So now she willing to consider you. This doesn't make any of this a reality. All I'm saying is, if she really considers you worthwhile she's willing to work a little for it. She could have gotten you easily before. The price has just went up now is all. Now she has to pay a little for it. And if she doesn't want to do that I think you have your answer of how much value she considers you. At least that's my take. You do what you like man.

[DarkLegacy]

Im not talking about a woman who has rejected me, im talking about a woman who would have rejected me when she was younger and probably has rejected men similar to me when she was younger.

[Opinion Owner]

How can you make that assumption. Your opinion is purely speculative.

[DarkLegacy]

Im talking about in the event of, i don't think you have read the question

[Opinion Owner]

Nevermind man. If such a thing happened it's pretty clear she made the right choice to begin with. Have a nice day. 🙂

[barn_stormer]

yes of course. she's useless now and old. date younger girls.

[DarkLegacy]

Exactly, you get it.

[barn_stormer]

I totally get it.

[Avicenna]

That’s cutting off your nose to spite your face. The criteria you should be applying now is is she compatible, stable and trustworthy, I. e, someone you want to date NOW.

[DarkLegacy]

I doubt women like that ever will be. Besides i want a younger woman

[Levin]

There's too many variables here to provide a sensible answer.

There seems some bitterness and resentment there to work on.

Overall, I'd say, keep your dignity and self-respect are paramount. Keep good standards. But that's just my opinion.

[anon1903]

Depends on why they didn't date you when you were younger.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes that is the point, it all depends on why they never dated me when they were younger, and i also have to consider the likelihood of them cheating.

[anon1903]

You can't really male assumptions it was because you weren't wealthy, like many guys on GaG seem to make.

Maybe you had a lousy personality as a young man.

[DarkLegacy]

Well i don't necessary think it is to do with wealth, but i think my personality has not changed, their personalities have changed.

[anon1903]

Okay.

[Anonymous]

People evolve and mature over time. But if you want to deny yourself pleasure in the name of "getting even," go for it! You can let some other guy fill her. . . needs!

[DarkLegacy]

No they need to be taught a lesson for doing so, i prefer younger women so i can have the best women which i intend to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Npbody gets "taught a lesson" by these stupid shenanigans, but if you want to fancy yuourself the Grteat Educator, I won't try to stop you.

When you try to "teach someone a lesson," all you really accomplish is to demonstrate to the wntire world how very much you are still hung up about the girl. Doesn't matter to me!

[DarkLegacy]

Im not hung up at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Revenge is a way of staying connected with an ex instead of letting go and moving forward.

[DarkLegacy]

There is no ex to move on from, like others you have misread the question

[Opinion Owner]

Wrong

[DrKrieger]

The alternative being you only date girls who would have dated you when you were less than you are today? I think that's silly

[DarkLegacy]

Well i prefer to go younger women so i can have the best women which i intend to do