Guys, if you’re late 40s would you seriously date a woman who’s in her late 20s or is that too young?

[Anonymous]

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

I wouldn't like her being young enough to be my daughter, so my kneejerk reaction is no.

But if she thinks I'm the bee's knees and wants something serious, then I'd at least consider the option.

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s a healthy dynamic. Especially constantly bringing up that I’m so much younger. We live in the same apartment building. He’s kinda by himself a lot I’ve never seen him with another girl. He’s nice to me whenever we talk but then gets sexual kinda fast and I feel objectified. I don't know how to break this pattern and officially stop talking to him.
He never took me on any dates or anything so I can’t tell if I’m being negged. Usually men ask me on a nice date and put in effort. So I don't know anymore lol.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Thanks, AI Bot. You're the best.

[BourbonAndBacon]

When I was 51 I dated a 29 year old for a year and a half. It depends on the person. The younger person will need to be an old soul and the older person needs to be very active to keep up. Then it's no big deal

[Anonymous]

I would if we got on well. It just wouldn't be my first choice. I tried dating a woman that was 30 and that didn't turn out well at all so I'm not eager to do that again. Let me put it this way I'd probably give her a lot more consideration before jumping into it this time.

[DarkWinterNights]

Eh, probably not. I would have a hard time believing she was with me for me.

[dolemite58]

If i was in my 40’s i’d hook up with a girl in her 20’s if the occasion arose but i wouldn’t seriously date her it’d just be too big of an age gap.

[AngryCarl2]

I would date her as long as she would be amenable.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm 28 and I consider most women under 30 too young lol

[ronaldo75]

I'm in my early 40s and the youngest I would go is about 24 or 25.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

I would do it. As long as it’s legal. Would you date someone in their 40s, 50s, or older?

[spartan55]

Entirely too young

[Asker]

You’re the only one with common sense here lol

[spartan55]

I dated a 21 year old when I was 30 and it was not what I expected. At all.

[spartan55]

I see the guy you are with is following 'large age gap' playbook.

[barn_stormer]

no such thing as too young

[exitseven]

Sure, why not?

[Asker]

There’s a guy I’m talking to right now who’s 47 and I’m 27 and he doesn’t seem to take me seriously at all and keeps alluding to me being young and himself as old. Told me he doesn’t usually date anyone that much younger. I don't know he’s kind of off too, sent me dick pics unsolicitedly.

[Asker]

I’m kinda curious because I’m attracted to much older men and I’m mature for my age but they may look at it through the lens of me being too young and not where they’re at…

[exitseven]

I would probably not date anyone that young at that age. I think ten years would be my limit.

[Asker]

Yeah and I don't know how to end it. I feel like I deserve better treatment.

[exitseven]

just say you are not interested.

[Asker]

I kinda am though. I feel like he negged me so much and now I feel bad about myself. Lol

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

If he keeps mentioning the age difference / your youth then he likely has an age gap fetish and is getting off on you being so much younger. Not a good sign.

I would cut him out of your life.