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coincidentally... my ex is currently your age... dated her when i was 24. so she was what...30-31 at the time... i'd dated older when i was younger too.
its just the uncertainty that kills it. i mean, either one person worries that they are too old or the other worries that they are to young and both start thinking about dating closer to their age. thats the reason my ex broke with me. she was uncertain that i was actually taking it seriously and there was no future... i would have argued... it the sex was not so horrendous. i took the win.13
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Oh yeah. Going out with a woman that's 10 years older than me sounds really fun & sexy. I've never done this before but I would be willing to go for it soon enough. I've always had a thing for hot older women in their 30s.22
I would ever mostly date someone if I am attracted towards her and like her and want something long term from her...
So I don't think dating someone 10 years older would be good.. Maybe she doesn't want commitment or is only interested in sex... Maybe she wasn't children someday? Lol
So that all matters and it depths12
If she has a compatible personality, then yes, of course I would. Age doesn't matter that much, neither does looks. In the hunt for a life partner, it's a girl's character that matters most.30
No I would consider like 1 year older maybe 2 but 10 is a lot, maybe a short term thing if she's really attractive ;).10
It really depends on how well I know her. I definitely don't seek out women who are older than me, and if I had the power to choose a woman I would exclude women above a certain age. But if I was dating a woman and then found out she was 33, I would continue dating her. I probly wouldn't wanna marry her tho0
No. While I'm still in my 20's, I would not. Perhaps later in life when I stop giving a shit.10
Give it a try, if it does not work out, it is not the end of life, keep searching.10
Yes, I have considered and I still will. Granted, those women don't tend to want to as I've had bad luck with those women.12
Everyone views age gaps differently. If you and him are ok with it that's all that matters.10
I don't know if we'd be able to relate on anything. I couldn't imagine being romantic with someone i couldn't understand10
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Before you date some guy a lot younger, please consider a few things.
When guys get to around 28, 30--if they have actually worked on themselves--career wise, personality, physically--they have the widest range of possible dates ever. Tons of 21 year old girls will date 28, 30 year old guys.
So if you date some guy ten years younger, and things last four years--when he's 28 and you're 38, you're in a worse position and he's hitting his stride.
If you want something stable that could lead to family, date in your own age bracket. You're not in a great dating bracket for women, at 33. It's okay, but not the best, at all. At 38? You'll find pickings much worse.
This is so true women are in their prime 17-26 where as for men it starts around 29. When I compare my dating life when I was 18 to when I was 30 the number of interested women was amazing. Im now married but still I get so much female attention thats absolutely unreal compared to when I was single. If I was single again I could pick up hot 20 year olds in a heart beat.