So I am dating a guy (31), who's a virgin. He's a bit shy, nerdy but very sweet. He told me that he never had a girlfriend before. Well, he's very involved in his studies. He's a researcher and most of the time, spends his time reading.
On the second date, he made me a meal and it was lovely. He is a great cook. We didn't kiss or do anything sexual so far after three dates, he's very nervous about it. He told me that he had bad experiences with girls in the past, bullying, public humiliation, or rejection for being nerdy.
I am not a virgin, nor dated a virgin before. I have good experience on my own. Yet I am being nervous about how to proceed. I really wanna make him very happy. He's probably the best guy in character that I have ever met or will, I really don't wanna lose him.
What Girls Said
I suggest just taking things slow and wait until he feels ready. If he has dealt with issues in the past, those are sure to cross his mind. Make sure if he indicates he isn't ready to respect that. There is no need to rush into sex if you have a good guy. Just let it happen naturally when he seems ready.
Take it slow
Tease him a bit
And be gentle
Do you have experience?
Haha no
I'm a virgin. And I'm quite older than most. Most lose it at eighteen minimum.
22 isn't that old
Thanks?
If I had my way, I'd have lost it a long time ago... So.