Did you seek out specifically your boyfriend because he checked off some important must-have physical, or personality, traits?

[asphaltrhymes]

For example, you knew as a woman you were only scanning the faces of the crowd over time for a tall man and you weren't settling for anything less. But he had to be tall and have a nice smile, no negotiation. That sort of thing ☺️

Yes, him being tall and a great smile were must-have's

Yes, him being polite, nerdy or geeky, and having 20/20 vision, were must-have's

Him being fat, stocky, but with a heart of gold, were must-have's

Him being a couch potato and yet slim were must-have's

Him being into looking at me with eyes 👀👀 that agreed with mine, sealed the deal 🤝👀👀😋😈

No, I completely settled for less than I deserve or deserved, but then, maybe I'll dump him for a better boyfriend 😏

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Don't be shy ladies, answers and opinions are all welcome here for more 👍👀

[Nikki1989]

He was funny, had good manners and shared the same interests as me.

[asphaltrhymes]

Thank you kindly ☺️☺️

[rachel776]

we were fixed up and i finally agreed to it

[asphaltrhymes]

By friends or family? And are you two still together, still happy? 😀

[asphaltrhymes]

Thank you for the contribution 🙂

[rachel776]

it's only been 3 months but so far so good

[asphaltrhymes]

Aww's that's really nice. Was it like a blind date organised by your girl friends? I hope it ain't too personal to ask. I'm just like one of those people who slightly likes a little details I mean who doesn't love asking the old story "so how did you two meet" or "so how did he propose" or even "so what do you do for a living" lol. 😎

[asphaltrhymes]

P. S. nice to hear you two lovebirds are going strong 👍🏻👍🏻 anyways. 🙂

[asphaltrhymes]

P. S. continued: there's always worse or a person could always do worse/settle for less/ settle for worse. So you know, sometimes the best relationships are the ones that just happen, pop like magic ✨ and they're happier than pigs in mud 🐖🐷 I like pigs lol, so pink. Anyways, merrily good vibes 🤩😄

[asphaltrhymes]

@rachel776 have a nice weekend and enjoy the boyfriend 👍🥳🎉

[Avicenna]

People choose partners for much worse reasons than personality

[asphaltrhymes]

You're not wrong there. Thank you 😊

[SophieLund]

I voted tall and a great smile. My boyfriend is tall, kind, confident, caring and so much more. He makes me feel protected and we always have fun together. Insecure, malicious, sadistic little manlet boys are repulsive to me.

[VadeinVain]

Not really. I think he had a crush on me and that made me have one on him too. I love him because he's very kind and stupid (in a charming way). He also showed me his cringe fnaf comics.