How do I move on from a cheater guy who chased me, got me, got bored, blocked me to pursue other girls whom he thinks are better than me and left me?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Sounds like he's already moved on.

Learn. Just like I try to red-pill these dudes about chicks that just want their money or to use them like emotional toilet paper... I think it's time to start red-pilling you chicks about the Chads, Carlos, and Tyrones that are going to use you for that booty call and drop you like a bad habit for the next one. You can sit around on your phone until he decides you're ready for another round or two and then it all happens again, or you can wake up and realize what it is.

It's kind of hard for me to formulate though because women are like a different animal. Like even a sub-par 4 out of 10 gets sexed by 10 out of 10 guys so trying to convince them to think a little bit differently about their options becomes difficult. I mean let us be real about that... guys might be exactly the same if Jessica Alba would sex the hell out of them just because he got a little tipsy one night. The issues and problems are just a lot different.

yeah so Learn is my advice. Learn learn learn. Do some research on the subject. I'd ask if you're alpha-widowed by the dude... if you don't know what that is... look it up and learn. I mean that kind of stuff could be an issue for you years down the road if that's the case. Learn. We internet retards won't have all the answers... you can find the answers though if you have internet access.

[ohsheeT]

First of all reread everything you just said you don't want a guy like that in your life anyway the guy used to just like he used all the other girls and one day he will get paid back by being lonely he'll be in a rehab or dead you don't have anything to get over you really don't really think about it the only thing you have to get over is that you were taking for a ride except it say okay it is what it is and move on don't waste your time don't be heartbroken all the pain that you feel you're doing to yourself because you're the only one that can make yourself feel that pain you're the only one that can make yourself happy because you're the only person on the inside of you so chalk it up as a good experience a bad experience a fucked up experience whatever it is accept it accepted it happened and move on you have to accept it before you can do anything you have to acknowledge it and then you can do something about it walk away

[catiecatie]

As a person that was in this boat last year take your time to heal. Go out with friends, find hobbies that make you happy. Don’t sit at home and do nothing. I will tell you it’s okay to cry. It took me 6 months to fully move on from that guy and I am so glad. I dodged a bullet on that one and I couldn’t be more happy. That guy can go to hell and so can your guy. Guys like that don’t deserve women like us! Head up girl you got this. If I can do it and pull out so can you! The best thing for me was completely leaving my old job, we used to work together and it was terrible. But honestly I didn’t leave because of him. I was sexually harassed out there and they did nothing when I told them. Anyways I believe in you! Someone will come into your life and take you. I’m crushing hard on this guy and it’s hard to tell if he’s interested or not but in a way it seems like it but you will be fine!

[WonderBell99]

You move on by acknowledging the fact that he is a fuckboy who is probably going to end up with herpes or any other sexually transmitted disease in the future. You dodged the bullet there. Would you rather stay in a relationship with such a promiscuous man who uses women for his own sexual gratification?

Did you know about his history with women before you got together with him? If so, that’s on you. You should know better than to associate yourself with immature men who have no control over their libido.

[WonderBell99]

dodged a*

[DermalPunch]

You need to focus on yourself not him.

Men always disrespect you in tiny ways to test you. Never let anything slide especially at the beginning because they are temperature checking you. You let other things slide which registered you as a push over in his mind and so he did this.

It sounds like you took him back so you have no self respect.

You need to do you.

[Asker]

He actually took me back when I ignored him at the beginning while he was chasing me. One fine day I fell back in love with him and agreed his love and he was with me for a few days and blocked me without an explanation. I guess it might be for a girl he thinks is better than me because he refuses to stay in contact with me anymore and refuses to provide me any reason either. I'm not sure if he's pursuing other girls or not but it's my highest doubt and I guess it's true. Any reason it might be I need to move on from him. How do I do that?

[DermalPunch]

He dumped you for someone else and you saybhe took you back? You really have to work on your self worth.

[Asker]

You didn't understand it correctly, I said that he chased me, I ignored him at the beginning, he chased me again and again, I ignored him. He was broken. After a while, I fell back in love with him and agreed his love and he took me back after I broken his heart. He was with me for few days. Suddenly he blocked me without any explanation and I guess it might be for some other girl but I don't exactly know if it's true or if it might be simply a guess. But for any reason it could be I need to move on from him. How do I do that?

[DermalPunch]

Just because a man chases you doesn't mean he respects or cares about you.

[Asker]

I agree

[DermalPunch]

We've all been here. 🤗 Lose this guy yesterday 🫂

[runnerboy]

Block him... get interested in other things, exercise a lot, spend time on a hobby, take care of your personal sexual urges if needed and when you least expect it the right guy will enter your life soon. Hang in there! Your thoughts?

[Asker]

Same

[runnerboy]

Agreed

[Lady_Heart]

You deserve better, n he wasn't. Keep telling urself that each time u remember him. N just move on with ur other stuff like work, n have fun with what u love

[Asker]

Thank you for motivating me to think better

[Lady_Heart]

Ur welcome 😊

[Paris13]

Think of What this Loser DID TO YOU. Should be EASY. xxoo

[Vegasrunner]

@Paris13 Got her back and the replaced her. Sounds like a winner to me.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner Is he a winner?

[Vegasrunner]

@asker never met him, I can only judge by your words and his actions seem like that of a winner. How long did he "chase you" before he got you?

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner For many months

[Vegasrunner]

@asker That makes sense. Because you made him wait so long u made yourself into a goal once he accomplished it he moved on to a better goal. I'm guessing he's in the 22-26 age range so that's a pretty sophisticated move. He's sounds like a winner

[MementoMori777]

realize there's better people out there and pursue those people instead

[Sexiestjohnson]

We are easy to deal with. Chase your dreams. Love yourself. Forgive us. Get married. Have kids. Your success and joy is usually our nightmare.

[Asker]

Funny

[Sexiestjohnson]

It is the only way to betray guys like that perfectly😂

[Asker]

Well, it's not betraying if the guy already cheated on a girl. It's known as moving on. But if the guy never cheated on her and if she does this then she's a cheater

[Sexiestjohnson]

I am currently not capable of this level of wickedness. I said it this way so you don't think I'm a saint but so you also know I am an undercover agent in the playboys club🤍

[stepyo99]

How long were you two in this relationship from after he got you to when he got bored? Did you have sex with him?

[Asker]

Just a week. No we didn't had any

[stepyo99]

I would stop basing your self-worth on the desires of others. A week isn't much time to get romantically involved with someone to the point that you should feel the need to "get over" them. I've had several relationships end after a couple weeks or months. We all want to be liked, so I get that it's natural to feel hurt from rejection, but getting over it involves developing a stronger sense of your own self-worth.

Spend some time outdoors, exercising, and/or developing a hobby for yourself. Physical activity can improve your mental state. Keep your chin up, you'll find a good guy, but just like I tell men, don't go giving your heart out to the first person who gives you any sort of affection.

[Asker]

Yeah

[KrakenAttackin]

You mean a "fuck boy"? It's your own fault, you knew he was a fuck boy when he was chasing you.

[Anonymous]

Let me put it this way, what is your other option. You made a mistake, it happens, learn from it and move on.

[Wise4myage]

Do your best to learn from this and move on.

[Asker]

What should I learn from him?

[Wise4myage]

That he's a fuck boy.

[JesseP1nk]

Part of life - happens all the time. He is probably gonna to same to the next girl

[Asker]

If he does that to other girl won't be my thought but he lost me, and I need to move on. How do I do that?

[JesseP1nk]

First you need to understand that was not your fault. Spend lot of time with friends and familiy -people who cares about you so you do not think about it entire time. Go out with friends, party, work on yourself - go for a run, gym. Start a new hobby - play guitar, paint. etc

[Asker]

Yeah

[Kathy1983]

Take time out get good friends and a threesome with Ben and Jerry’s always does the trick.

[red_knight]

Just live life. Find peace

[Asker]

How do I find peace when he broke my heart into pieces?

[slatyb]

Date someone who treats you better.

[Nikki1989]

You meet someone else.

[spartan55]

I would think that wouldn't be hard to do.

[itsalyssaagain]

You have to realise that it’s completely on him.

[In_Trance]

I don't think you want to

[Asker]

I don't have another option other than moving on. Who can wait on a guy who left already?

[LimitedBenefits101]

Lol

city boys up again