Me and this guy were talking for about a month and I would go to his place to spend time with him. Lately I was noticing that he’s been on and off with me and I brought that up to him and told him if he’s no longer interested then he should let me know. And he was basically telling me that he does like me but he’s about to move in a few months (which I already knew about) and that he doesn’t do long distance because of his past. He then asked if I want to keep talking to him or just be friends and I told him I’ll think about it. Fast forward to today, I told him I thought about it but then I asked what he thinks we should do. He said that we can still be friends and I just agreed and said I was thinking the same thing. I’m not going to lie I’m going to miss the times we had with each other and I don't know when I’ll get over him.
Moving on from someone can be a difficult and emotional process, but there are steps you can take to help yourself heal and move forward. Here are a few suggestions:
1. Give yourself time to grieve: It's normal to feel sad or disappointed when a relationship ends, even if it was only a short one. Allow yourself to feel your emotions and give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship.
2. Focus on your own well-being: Take care of yourself by engaging in self-care activities like exercise, healthy eating, meditation, or spending time with friends and family. This can help boost your mood and improve your overall well-being.
3. Set boundaries: If being friends with the guy is too difficult or painful for you, it's okay to set boundaries and take some space from the relationship. This can help you process your emotions and move on more effectively.
4. Reflect on the relationship: Take some time to reflect on the relationship and what you learned from it. This can help you identify any patterns or behaviors that you want to avoid in future relationships, and can help you grow and learn from the experience.
5. Keep an open mind: While it's important to respect your own boundaries and priorities, it's also important to keep an open mind and be open to new experiences and relationships in the future. Remember that everyone's journey is unique, and that you have the power to shape your own path and create the life you want for yourself.
Remember that moving on from someone takes time and effort, but with patience and self-care, you can heal and grow from the experience.
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