1. a girls dad and bro being overprotective and threatening her boyfriend again and again, telling her she can't talk to boys, or trying to scare her boyfriend or guy friends away.
2. a girls boyfriend being overprotective and suspicious of her guy friends and not wanting her to walk alone or wear certain pants out in public or show cleavage
3. a girls guy friend being over protective
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It's not, not at all I don't see how it could be its just normal behavior for people who care about the girl.
I was raised by conservative so maybe those raised by liberal wold see it in a bad light but personally to me it's normal behavior.
Are girls vulnerable?
Is this reasonable?
what confuses me is reactionary people can say those feminist women dont take accountabilty for there aciton they coddle women they overprotect women and i think this right here can make it hard for owmen to take reponsibility for them self and gets in the way of women being capable.
i hope me and u can talk about this civilly without arguing.
I'm not a feminist, I believe in traditional relationship and I always been used of men taking the blame for me to protect me and such, it's just normal behavior for men to want to protect women because they're weaker than them, I don't believe the whole equality stuff, men and women are different and have different role both as important as the others.
Feminism is just full on hypocrisy but the whole world is full of hypocrite so
thid wave and fourth wave feminism has a lot of problems and i find it really annoying but for women to have equal oppurtitnity and be acapable be able to take responsibility for them self there are some aspects of traditinalism which get in the way of that that is my point
and over protective behavior is definitely can be more harmful than good, and it kinda makes women morevulnerable, less capable, and more entitled in many cases, which are rtalking points many ocnsevative and alt right women are complaining about,
if i Can just say its his fault he didn't protect me enough everyTIme i get in trouble then i will get bailed out everytime a nd also ill never be able to take care of myself ill be forced to depend on others every time and ill be vulnerable to abuse
I've always known men and women are diffrent but u can be different and equal
I don't really get your whole post things are great the ways they are why changing? Also women like to be protected what's wrong with that? That's literally a both conscious and unconscious like.
I didn't say it was wrong to be protected im saying over protective or too over protective to much can LEAD to these problems:
1: not respecting the girls space
2: hurting innocent people
3: taking blame and girl never takes responsible for her self
4: girl is more vulnerable as a result, her protector won't always be around
5: girl may become en titled
6: girl may hurt people and expeect to be saved from trouble every time
1. i wouldn’t say this one is objectification, but it is rooted in misogyny.
2. yes, this is objectification.
3. depends on the situation.
how would u handle these if theyh appened to you
I don't know tbh