I found out about her romantic past. How can I muster up hope again?

[Anonymous]

There was this girl in my church group I was interested in. She told me yesterday she just got out of a 2 year relationship and I was crushed. I told her we wouldn't be compatible after finding that out.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Let’s find the root of your problem.

The root of your problem comes from the fact that you think only a virgin girl can love you, because you assume any other man is better than you and a woman who has had other man will not be able to like and love you.

Is that so?

In this case, ask yourself the question “Why do I feel so insecure about myself?”

“Why do I feel so unworthy of love?”

“Why do I sabotage potential relationships over a very trivial reason?”

“Why don’t I allow myself be happy?”

and try to think of the answers on these questions…

From my side I can tell you, a woman can love you even if she has had the sexiest man before you.

Because love isn’t only about sex, it’s a complex emotion and covers lots of aspects of our personalities and physical needs. So you can be loved! Even if she had a relationship before, she can still love you and treat you like you are the best she has had.

[Asker]

It is a lot more than that

[LazerBean]

Just tell her you're into teen girls and would sleep around if you got the opportunity, I assure you that will get her to leave you alone immediately.

[LazerBean]

And that you've already slept around

[Asker]

I had sex exactly once 8 years ago when I lost my virginity. I haven't even kissed a woman since. She didn't want to pursue a relationship with me.

[LazerBean]

I know, disgusting. And of course she didn't.

[Asker]

The girl I lost my virginity to was supposedly a virgin too. Although, like I said, she didn't want anything romantic. She was 16; I was 20 at the time.

[LazerBean]

Yeah you're both hoes, I know.

[slatyb]

There's no hope for you because your requirement is ridiculous.

[Lliam]

You're the one with a problem, not her.

[Asker]

Well she wasn't interested for one. And even if she was, I would have declined because she has a romantic past.

[Lliam]

Gee, I wonder why she wasn't interested. 😂🤣