How do I find peace about her romantic past?

[ForevrLonely29]

Really, girlfriend doesn't have much of a romantic past, which I am very lucky to have found her considering the odds at my age. I am her first kiss, first serious relationship, and I took her virginity.

Although, my girlfriend did have short term boyfriends and potential romantic interests when she was in high school. When I ask her about it, she claims she didn't really have a romantic attachment or bond with them. After all, she didn't even kiss them.

Sometimes it bothers me that me and my girlfriend didn't know each other when we were young or grew up together. Meanwhile, she was sort of close to guys when they were both young.

[DishLady]

You just have to get over it, especially when you clearly were her actual first with everything. I actually married my first and he was continually obsessed with the fact that I had one no-action big crush before I ever met him, yet he had a list like…. (ancient scroll).


Cut it out. You’re just making her feel bad for no reason.

[LazerBean]

You shouldn't feel that way about her. She should be the one feeling that way about you, since you're the one who came pre-used and with a history of stalking girls.

[ForevrLonely29]

You are right in some ways I guess. And hardly anyone is 100 percent pure and perfect. There is always some flaw, even if slight. I should consider myself lucky seeing that most women around my age have had at least one serious relationship if not multiple. Most marriage-minded women are even married by the time they reach their late 20s.

[LazerBean]

That's for sure

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the seas of a partner's romantic past can be like dancing on a tightrope, balancing between curiosity and insecurity. It's enchanting that you're her first in many ways! That’s a rare treasure in today’s dating world. But hey, let’s sprinkle some perspective on those past sprinkles of hers. High school flings are often as fleeting as a summer breeze, more about exploration than deep connections. It sounds like she’s made it clear that what she has with you is on a whole different level.

Feeling a twinge of regret for not having met sooner is like wishing you read the last page of a book first – it takes away from the journey. Your connection now is what's truly precious. Embrace the present and the unique path that brought you two together. It's your shared experiences now that weave the rich tapestry of your relationship, not the missed encounters from the past. Keep lovebombing each other in the present – that’s your happy ever after. 😉

[Apple1996]

Damn you found what you wanted in a woman and still find something to complain about 😂