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How long do you usually try to get to know a person before asking them out/agreeing to go out? (Page 2)
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I like to give it at least a year. To really get to know them as a human first.
Lol i can't tell if this is sarcasm
Its actually not lol. I'm just weird and say things like that sometimes
I ask almost immediately and use the dates to see if she and I click.
Not bad. Possibly a waste of a good outfit tho
lol I just don't want to wait a month or more to find out we do not mesh well.
I don't know just depends on the individual I suppose.
If I really like them.. usually if we hit it off within week
Okay
I am at the point. Why wait? that is a waste of time... if you like someone tell them etc
I would tell them. Then i’d get to know then for a month
So you would go on a few dates.. then continue?
I would get to know them by phone or at work or wherever i met them for at least a month before agreeing to a date
WhT matters is us clicking well and flowing pretty well, so if am to feel her flow plus style even a month is enough.
Cool cool
I'd probably talk a couple days before a date. The date is where I'd get to know them properly
Online I would ask someone out for coffee within 2 days. I lose interest way before a week
Well if I like someone I would talk to her maybe once or twice before asking her out on a date
I get to know someone and not really thinking about asking somebody out/or agreeing to date
So then what is your goal?
Building up the courage
What are you afraid of? I mean if its rejection, thats nothing to fear. Just means they werent for you
I never been confident
You gotta get it together bud. I know you’re worthwhile. You just need to believe in yourself
I interact with the texting or emai, get to know them better. Usually 3-5 days is sufficient.
Better than nothing
There have been a few occasions we chatted for 4-6 weeks and I felt I still did not know them well enough to date.
What was missing? I ask because if you dont know in 4-6 weeks, how would you know if you skipped the 4-6 weeks and just went straight for the date?
Maybe a week or two we all have true colours no person is perfect, there's always time to reform our ways.
Mmmm if u say so
It's real easy to lose a friend that way. So it takes me a bit.
Easy to lose a friend that way how? They probably were a fake friend in that case
They get creeped out. Don't want much to do with you after that.
I don't know what kinda girls you be talking to if getting to know her first creeps her out
Lol.. that's why you make sure and wait.
About 3 months
Glad im finally not alone
It depends... but certainly within 3 weeks.
Not bad at all
Depends on how much I have had to drink
A couple years.
And they said i was harsh
How's that harsh?
Probably should’ve used a different word. But just looking around at the comments, people would think you’re nuts since they find my 1-3 months to be impulsive
And they're find to think that way. I could ask a woman out after a day if I was so moved (it's never happened though). Most women don't show any real obvious interest typically. Most women don't make any real effort typically. So most the time it takes a while for me to get to know and trust a woman and her motives. I want to date a woman for who she is and her to date me for who I am not who she creates me to be.
When did she have time to “create you to be” something else if she didn't know you like that yet
All women do this to an extent. Your brains create the guy long before you actually know the guy. This is why so many women make so many bad choices. Many don't take the time to slow down and actually get to know the guy.
I try to place logic before emotion
👍 You probably make on the average better choices than most then.
3 or 4 hundred years lol
Well for once i can spot sarcasm. Otherwise You must wanna be single forever
I probably will be at my age, but i can say at least I was married to my one and only for 37 years, she waiting for me in heaven, with my 2 daughters.
Awww
2-3 months
Yay im not alone lmao
2 years
Ahh okay