Girls, do you ask guys about their past relationships and dating history?

[Anonymous]

As a guy who’s at an older age and has very little experience, this is a topic that guys like me dread being brought up. But how many of you ask about this to guys you’ve been dating? I’ve heard its pretty common for this to come up.

Yes I do

No I don’t

[DizzyDesii]

I do but the answers vary and do not surprise me. I have come across 14 types of men and I’d consider dating all except for the #5/6 or #13/14. I would prefer to date EITHER someone who is a virgin but has been in at least one relationship before OR a nonvirgin has been in a relationship before but does not brag about having or wanting a high body count. As you can see below, there is NUMBER 1/2 a virgin waiting til marriage and has had OR never had a girlfriend, NUMBER 3/4 a virgin waiting for the right one instead of waitng til marriage and has had OR never had a girlfriend, NUMBER 5/6 a virgin who is desperately seeking someone to lose his virginity too and has had OR never had a girlfriend, NUMBER 7/8 a nonvirgin who wishes he waited til marriage and has had OR never had a girlfriend, NUMBER 9/10 a nonvirgin who is glad that he's not a virgin and proud he slept with a low number of women but has had OR never had an actual girlfriend/relationship, NUMBER 11/12 a nonvirgin who is glad that he's not a virgin but regrets how many women he's slept with and has had OR never had an actual girlfriend/relationship, and NUMBER 13/14 a nonvirgin who is proud that he's not a virgin and brags about how many women he has slept with and how many more he intends to bang but has had OR never had an actual girlfriend/relationship before.

Which are you?

[Cynicaldreamer]

On that's a must! I know some people think that's unnecessary, a big "no no," and invasive, but for me, it's how I judge a guy.

I don't ask those kind of questions right away, but as I get to know him? Yeah I'm going to want to know why he's still single, why things didn't work out with his ex (es), how many sexual partners, and yes, what type of women he's into. If he doesn't have anything to hide, answering said questions shouldn't be an issue. Trust me, he can ask me the same questions and it won't bother me.

[Asker]

So then what would your reaction be if you asked about that and his response was that he had never dated anyone before and is very inexperienced for his age?

[Izzy_3991]

I don't ask about it because it's the past.
Don't allow your limited dating experience to bother you too much 🥰
I've only had 1 official boyfriend, the other “boyfriend” I had was only for a week and I was guilt-tripped into that relationship. I was guilt-tripped into both, actually, but I will spare you the details 🤣🤣

[Flower7]

No because I don’t want to know. It would only make me jealous and cause me to have negative feelings toward him.

[Daniela1982]

I take them down to the station and question them until they crack.

[sheikalana]

I don't usually ask these type of questions out of nowhere but if the conversation arises me and my partner would ask each other questions.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I would rather not know. Less of a headache.

[mandyfire98]

Nope I don't ask about any of that. None of my business.

[rachel776]

no that's his business

[Nikki1989]

Nope, it is none of my business.