Guys, is it a turn off if a woman doesn't work out?

Question

I don't work out but i'm really fit. Like I have perky boobs, a firm round butt and a tight stomach. I'm skinny with some curves. I'm a slim hourglass basically..

Truthatanycost · Accepted Answer

Working out is not just about how you look, it's about how you think. Having the discipline to stay the course with any routine is admirable. And since I consider our body as a sacred vessel, working out is the least we should be doing for it. Therefore if a woman does not workout, it's a turn-off.

I'm not sure why you're surprised at the results, we live in a culture that lacks discipline and health. Few people that I've met do any exercise... even fewer can be bothered to eat healthily.

megabamse · Accepted Answer

A tiny bit yes. Working out is not only to be fit but to stay healthy and have a good functional body when your old.

Avicenna · Answer

No, and no guy will fault you for not working out. Personally, I'd prefer to date a woman who wants to run with me.

AviatorTom · Answer

If she's naturally fit, there's no reason to work out. If she's staying healthy, that's great!

hahahmm · Answer

What happens is when you get older - if you didn't bother to build good habits - it will be too hard for you to stay in shape and guys don't like lazy/out of shape women. Some women are smart enough to become experts at keeping themselves in good shape (skin, hair, fitness level, nutrition) & then you have many who just wing it and get surprised when they hit the wall.

But let's say you look great forever... then the issue will be your character. Lots of very good looking women can't get a man to take her seriously because she lacks the character stuff.

Leme2 · Answer

You can't be fit without training. She can be slim with no training and have perky boobs and/or ass with no training, but that's different than being fit. Being fit means having a high physical capacity. Physically this means being toned, having big muscles, or being cut. You can be fit and not curvy, curvy and not fit, fit and not slim, or slim and not curvy. I would prefer a woman is both fit and curvy (or a natural good body which you call "fit"), but I would prefer slim or slightly chubby and naturally curvy. I can however can find pretty much any body type attractive if it's legitimately fit. Also, natural body figure (regardless of body type) will fade with age so you should make a habit of working out early.

epicsoundwaves · Answer

I've got no issue with someone not working out and still staying normal weight (i. e. fast metabolism) and even if they didn't work out and were heavier. But I'd hope they work out for the purpose of staying healthy. There are so many physical and psychological benefits to getting exercise that everyone should be doing it, to some capacity.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

It isn't a turn off, sometimes people have bust schedules, or just not into it. When I was in the military and single I workout all week long taking Friday and sat off. As I got old and settled down, I stopped, life got in the way, and going to the gym, wasn't the priority. Some people get crazy with working out, I tend to go with the flow.

KingslayerC · Answer

I just like women that aren't lazy. It doesn't have to be the gym, but she needs to do some physical activity. Even something like gardening or bike riding is enough. Just don't live your entire life on a screen.

Curmudgeon · Answer

"I don't work out but i'm really fit." - which is great, but just remember you ARE 18-24. With age, your metabolism will change, among other events.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I love how I voted for the last option and that's how I am and how I prefer the women i'd date 👍😃😋

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

There are some lucky people that do not have to raise a finger to look great. But like most people we are jealous of those people. But I am not jealous of their luck I could be worse off than I am. LOL

Staximus · Answer

I don't think most guys even care, as long as she still looks good. The only guy that would care is a fitness freak. Young people can still appear fit if they are not fat, but that doesn't last forever.

PragmaticProfit · Answer

To be truthful, as a former bodybuilder, I don't believe it matters all that much. I mean, there's no denying the allure of a fit, well-toned body, yet there is also a unique attractiveness to a woman with a fuller figure, nice bust, and curvaceous ass. If anything, I've noticed that women who refrain from exercise often exhibit a certain lack of motivation or energy, which personally, I find less appealing.

inhua · Answer

results have always mattered more than the process itself for better or worse

for better because good results should be rewarded even though unfortunately they don't always do

for worse because it encourages bandwagoners to hop onto the ride without ever experiencing the highs and lows

ohsheeT · Answer

If this is what you look like you look good and take care of yourself

RyanK9b · Answer

Generally it works for the most people. If you're not getting fat or similar is it fine.  But to be trained is a hole other deal in terms of optics and touch

DarkLegacy · Answer

It could go either way, i mean i would not want a woman with muscles like a guy for instance. I want her to look like a woman.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

As long as you take care of yourself and strive to keep a healthy weight, I wouldn’t have a problem with it. Working out is ideal, but life is busy and I’m not going to hold my partner to a standard I can’t meet myself. It would help and be nice to have a workout partner though.

RingOfFire · Answer

Wouldn't matter to me. Either one of the women in those pics is sexy as hell! And if she was that way naturally without working out EVEN BETTER!

However... you are just a kid. If you don't start working out now, you won't look that good very long. And it will be much harder (probably impossible) to get it back later.

DextroShade · Answer

You can only get away with that because you are young, as you age you will have to work out to maintain your beauty.

soe11 · Answer

Your shape is remarkable sexy, really not required, but can be good to maintain.

Naydyonov · Answer

If this is how you look, then you look good. But the advantage of working out is that as you age, you will be able to maintain a fit appearance. In addition, workouts are good for health. Doesn't have to be very intense. Walking is extremely good for health despite not being as intense as running or swimming.

Paul09 · Answer

As long as she is active in other ways. I live a active life, do I'd want a active girlfriend.

Berethor · Answer

It's fine either way to me, if you naturally fit then you don't have much need for a work out.

LiamJHayden · Answer

As long as she is not a couch potato, no it is not.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, not at all, because you sound very fit. :)

Anonymous · Answer

Your totally good. If you look like that girl from behind then you have a GREAT ass and legs! How are your boobs?

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

No... It's actually a turn off for me if she's one of those cringe lame people who take working out very seriously and make a lifestyle and a personality out of it...

SunnyRS · Answer

It doesn't matter to me as long as she is healthy and fit.

Stoner710 · Answer

My thing is, don’t be massively overweight, so don’t be Lizzo. If you’re 10-20 pounds over weight that’s fine, Not every women looks like Alexa Bliss. I don’t work out but I don’t over eat. Also Tobacco keeps you skinny

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No it's not a turn off you can be attractive and not work out

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