Guys, is it a turn off for you a woman who is hot blooded/can get mad?

[Anonymous]

By that I mean someone who can get mad/lose it in arguments (like the throwing plates type of behavior)… is this kind of behavior kinda hot to you or the opposite? Or does it show she doesn’t control herself? I don’t mean all the times but…sometimes.
I’m actually quite turned on by this in men, like the sheer anger can be hot lol. just wondering what’s the perception of men

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I was asking cause I was in Italy and women seem really proud and the type who would throw your stuff out of the window if you cheat basically lol. I know personally some men who would kinda like that type of character I think, or would at least be entangled in relationships with constant heated arguments. I can get mad myself but I don’t think I would allow myself or even could let it out like that no way

[ohsheeT]

No it's a turn off I don't want to fight it takes to much energy so it takes that much energy to have sex to make love the right way so it's either one or the other and I'm going for the sex I mean if you want to role play a fight or something like that or an argument just to get that sexual Rush but no thank you

[Guy13]

It would startled me a bit and I woukd probably be focused on the cost of that plate etc…🤷🏻‍♂️. I’ve had stuff like that happen in units. And all kinds other stuff coming out of that and leases blow-up etc. Like dents in walls exploded somehow soda on walls. Counselor by chance❓

[Guy13]

Look, this was not meant to be a liked answer. NO NO NO… DO NOT DO THAT. People can end up in jail and ER doing 💩 like this. NO NO NO

[Jennz6]

Wow, I could never be angry with a man. As a woman, I feel very submissive.

[FilmGuy93]

That is such a massive turn off, that it's tough to put into words

[Flunkerdunk]

It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:9

It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.
Proverbs 21:19

A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;
Proverbs 27:15

I guess the way I would put it is this: An angry wife forcing you to sleep in the living room is okay, but being forced to sleep outside in the dog house is a better blessing.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can't stand those types of women, I can't even be just aquantences with them, let alone friends, or best friends.

Being the SO of an angry bitter person who gets mad over being wrong, or over stupid shit, or over fixable things, or loses her ability to be calm when problems happen, would be the absolute worst.

It's one of several reasons why couples should have the same hobbies and goals and lifestyle, and agree on anything important. Heated arguments are a red flag.

[DryGermanGuy]

I had to work with choleric people, absolutely dreadful. I would never accept such behavior in my personal life. And I have met people who grew up with such parents, it’s obvious their souls took damage, witnessing that choleric behavior!

[TheSpaceGnome]

For a second I thought you meant people with cholera infections, I didn't know "choleric" was used to mean an easily angered person.

[20yearsolder]

Yeah it's a major turnoff, if she's throwing shit then I don't want anything to do with her. I will not tolerate that

[boggboss]

Lol no im not turned on by a person that can't control there anger if I had a partner that did this more then once we would be over with

[spartan55]

Anyone who can't control their anger like that is never taken seriously again.

[Rockstarrrrr]

I love feisty women but throwing and breaking stuff.. Yelling too loud is too much... That's just acting like a baby

[TroyDT]

Hot-blooded is fine, but if she gets violent I show her the door.

[nawtee_me]

I know that girl, I was in a relationship with her and will not ever be again.

[Anonymous]

Not in the least. Just because some guys would tolerate that doesn't mean I would.

[Anonymous]

There is no place in my life for a woman like that.

[krin_m]

Nope! It is a big turn-off for me!

[pizzalovershouse]

Nope won't be around a girl like that

[msc545]

No. Adults don't act like this.

[Hanrej]

No, it's a huge turn on.

[Jerkallot]

Turn on I. like that wild stuff

[Jerkallot]

I think u r prob very fun in bed