I fairly often get complimented for my looks. My female friends always say I'm pretty, I look cute, I look like a doll or an Asian idol, etc. I even found out my crush and a common male friend think I look good. But still, I'm not a hottie at all. I got thick thighs, wide hips and a thin waist going on for me, but that's it. I'm way too short (4'11), skinny, have small boobs and I look a bit childish and much younger than my actual age. People even treat me like a little kid sometimes. Looks aside, I'm a pretty good catch too, but I'm a bit too shy and not assertive at all, I can't do much more than some clumsy hidden flirting.
I feel very insecure when it comes to girls who actually look like the women they are; taller, hotter, more experience and straightforwardness than me. Despite I probably beating them in personality, hobbies and etc (not meaning to say they're bad people though, most of the ones I know are lovely people), I often feel like guys would always rather go out with a girl like them instead of a girl like me who's more of a doll or a child.
Do looks matter enough for a guy to pick a girl over another? Even if a girl is good looking, can this younger look be a big turn off?
I feel very insecure when it comes to girls who actually look like the women they are; taller, hotter, more experience and straightforwardness than me. Despite I probably beating them in personality, hobbies and etc (not meaning to say they're bad people though, most of the ones I know are lovely people), I often feel like guys would always rather go out with a girl like them instead of a girl like me who's more of a doll or a child.
Do looks matter enough for a guy to pick a girl over another? Even if a girl is good looking, can this younger look be a big turn off?
