Soo I have this problem with his friends. I have my own friends and these 2 circles doesn’t go together. I usually hang out with my friends alone since it’s usually only girls. Unless there is a party, then everyone brings their SO.
His group of friends usually hang out with their so. It doesn’t matter if it’s only for coffee or a party, they do everything together. But I don’t go along with them. So I feel really uncomfortable. He makes me go because everyone brings their so and he doesn’t want to go alone. And he ditches me. We go in together. Then he talks to literally everyone except me. He does check in on me occasionally (like every hour or so), but it’s really short like “All good?” And that’s it. I feel really lonely in these gatherings, and extremely uncomfortable. I end up on my phone. I’ve tried to talk about it with him (asked to go without me, told him that it makes me feel lonely). I understand that he wants to talk with them since they see each other rarely. But I don’t want to go there and feel lonely/hurt/unwanted.
How to make him understand?
