Girls, Girls; why would you agree to sleepover at the guy's place but not let him come or stayover?

[Anonymous]

I'm really wondering , why on the first date, of course when everything goes great, agree to spend the night at the guy's place but not agree to let him come over to your place. i'm kinda at a loss here

[_Maya_]

She might have changed her mind and thought it wasn't a good idea anymore. For whatever reason she was comfortable with it at first and made the offer but then decided nah. That's okay to do. What I'm wondering is why on a first date is it even being suggested? That is crazy quick. Also, the date may have not gone as well as you think it did for her.

[Asker]

Well the date went great, she kissed me and i kissed her back and we continue to frolic way more during the whole date, her kissing my neck, even biting it.. Was surely too much PDA for the other guys around us. i didn't suggest it or else, it just came up as we were both willing to spend the night together.
She was ok to sleep over at my place, and she was even the one leading the way. Just when i said at mine, we couldn't because of my living situation at the moment, she said we couldnt go to her place.
It's not a problem, just wondering why it waas ok to come over to mine but not go to hers, thats it.

[_Maya_]

Sometimes people just have a change of heart for no reason at all or something just clicks and they change their mind. Hard to say. I'm guessing is all.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe she just isn’t prepared to take guests like you are. I wouldn’t take it personally.

[Asker]

Thank you for your answer. Yes maybe you are right. It's not that i take it personally haha, it's just that i didn't understand why coming to my place was OK, but not going over to hers. Your answer is just so straightforward that i never considered it to be just that! Way too much overthinking, I was trying to find such complicated answers never considered the simple one!