Guys, is it a turn off if a woman wants to take care of you? (Page 2)

Question

Someone who acts like a wife, girlfriend, friend, motherly to you because she cares? I read somewhere here that is a serious turn off. Example: she reminds you to put on some SPF or take your vitamins, etc  What kind of woman do you want to be with? Why?

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Honestly it's kind of confusing like I personally am not used to it so I don't know how or what to do about it or anything

Paul09 · Answer

What does that even feel like? Having someone cares that you even exist! Seems nice on paper. If like it to a certain point. And id do the same back

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It can be nice, as long as she doesn't get too forceful with it.

justabuddy · Answer

Yes and no. It has to come in stages. You can't just start controlling his life on the first date. You will look controlling.

You also have to remember that certain things make him who he is. It's a balance.

Shamalien · Answer

If it is a turn off ur sick lol. Why would a caring partner be a turnoff to a healthy person?

AngryCarl2 · Answer

It's a turn off if a girl wants to mother me. I don't fancy my mother. I want a girl who will take advantage of me sexually.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. My needs and wants being tended to by a woman who truly care for me is a dream come true

okeydoke · Answer

I’m an adult. I want to be supported, but not babied.

Massageman · Answer

As long as she doesn't become a "helicopter" in your life, it's a good thing.

Goofy9009 · Answer

No if that makes her happy then yes it wouldn’t be a turn off

007kingifrit · Answer

NO! the nurturing instincts of women are among the most attractive thing a woman can ever show. it is the thing we want more than all else.

driven159 · Answer

if a guy wants to be mothered then that would be his thing as for myself, I am too independent for that.

BLP11520 · Answer

I don’t want to be micro managed just loved

Iron_Man · Answer

No it’s an honor but I would never forget to buy her things

neoagent1 · Answer

No it would make me want to be with her more because she cares.

Wise4myage · Answer

I think its totally fine as long as a girl isn't too over the top.

clampfan101 · Answer

Not at all. I would be grateful. Especially because I’m forgetful.

Sparkie460 · Answer

It's annoying but not a turn off. It just shows that she cares

Nominal · Answer

If she trying to "reminds, be sure, make sure" į may interpretated that she think im stupid.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’m copying someone else’s reply but Submissive & Supportive > Confrontational & Controlling

Blacksnake285 · Answer

That doesn’t exist, a woman actually wants a wealthy guy to take care of her.

There’s no woman making 300 k a year going for guys who make 56 k a year. But there’s women who make money as low as 50 k and they think they’re entitled to a wealthy guy

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

While appreciated, it can get over the top and lined with suggestions of payback.

dragoblack · Answer

I know it is for some, but not for me. It shows she cares

TallAnon · Answer

It definitely can be, very thin line between caring and nagging

Jerre · Answer

Depends on what she means by “taking care” of me

Goodvibes2 · Answer

Its an absolutely a turn on. Imagine she takes care of all my needs. Such a blessing that would be.

CallMeTy21 · Answer

Definitely a turn on as long as she's not too overwhelming with it. It's nice to be with a woman that cares for you and will do anything for you.

SnowedIn · Answer

Not a turn off. I'd appreciate it.

krin_m · Answer

Depends! It can be a turn off if she is too pushy!

dolemite58 · Answer

helping u when ur sick is one thing but acting like a nag is a different story 😂

mommymommymommy · Answer

so, you're asking if a guy wants his girlfriend, to be like his mother? Wouldn't that depend on what HE wants, not what a GUY wants

Proair14 · Answer

Honestly that’s a huge the turn on but if it starts to go overboard then maybe not so much

shades777 · Answer

you mean like a mom to a child, or nurse you back to health if you get sick, or keep you happy, very broad question needs more specifics

fonduegirl · Answer

I don't think your girlfriend behaving like your mom should be a turn on. That's just weird.

Jennz6 · Answer

I think some guys like it

exitseven · Answer

No , it is a huge turnoff if she doesn;t.

Hithere4567 · Answer

Not at all. It shows she loves me.

cyclingkmi · Answer

Why would it be a turn off?

Mr1derful · Answer

No it’s a major turn on!

Rangers · Answer

No, that's a huge turn on

Unit1 · Answer

Its a serious turn off if she doesn't.

boobliker · Answer

not at all I love it!

muscles_glasses · Answer

Id rather be the one taking care of her

inhua · Answer

most likely no

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Nae!! I've jus never had it like that..

eagle1951 · Answer

damn where is she lol

dudeinohio · Answer

That's fine

als24 · Answer

Nah.

Christoff92 · Answer

No. Not at all 😏

TrillXHippy · Answer

Yes.

In_Trance · Answer

No it's not

shortster · Answer

Not in the least

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes of course it is

jjj101010 · Answer

Nope

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Loving and caring

Abdulwahh · Answer

No depends how

Actor3 · Answer

No it is a turn on andhelps you to cheat

Anonymous · Answer

I like if she take care of my Dick..😊

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