I am going to do a nose job, I have already reserved a place with the best surgeon in my country, once I go back.
But I am happy and not ashamed of my decision, because I badly injured my nose as a child, when I got hit by my huge fat classmate, it has sharpened my face shape and obviously made less symmetrical and less attractive than it was or would be without that accident.
However, I thank that accident for my current personality. Changing from a very pretty girl into a not so pretty girl in just 1 minute, is an experience that can change your life and not necessarily in a bad way.
I was always complimented on how cute and pretty I was before that accident. I thought I was so pretty I felt entitled to get things done my way.
After that I realized my looks could no longer serve me any good, so I had to train my brain, I had to introspect, observe, learn more about people and myself, try to become a bit better person because I no longer had it as easy as before.
So, it made me a different person. I still have the confidence but I now judge myself objectively.
I know I am not that special looks wise, I also know that had I not broken a nose, I’d be much prettier now.
That was an interesting experience that shaped my personality in a totally different way and made me an independent person I am today.
My mom was a very pretty girl and she always expected to be cared for and pampered, I expect the same but I don’t feel entitled for that because I know I have to put something on a table as well.
I think this knowledge came after I lost something that used to make my life very easy - looks.
I am not a bad looking girl, I am quite charming and charismatic but that’s thanks to my personality. I would be much better had I not broken my nose.
I am going to do a nose job to fix and make myself look the way I was always supposed to look and also, to fix my breathing difficulties, as my nose if barely functional due to the trauma.
There is beauty in wisdom. I don't regret my scars. They show I've lived. If you can't breath well, by all means fix your nose, but don't fix it to "make yourself beautiful" when it's a reminder of the story that make you more beautiful on the inside.
@BoopBoopBeep Thank you, in truth my nose is not too bad as it is, as I’ve had multiple men like me, want to date me and some fall in love with me, with the looks I’ve got.
But I have small breathing difficulties, I can’t breath with nose well enough and that’s not good for health as a nose has its own function and it will eventually affect my health, if I don’t take care of it. Since I am going to fix this breathing problem, why shouldn’t I fix the looks of it as well, especially since I was always very very curious what would I look like have I not broken the nose in childhood. And since I look decent enough with this nose to attract lots of males, I feel like probably I would be much prettier with my real nose, the one I had before I broke it.
But it was a definitely good experience, I would not be a person I am today, had it not been that accident. I think I am a better person thanks to it.
I didn’t do the nose job earlier, when I told my ex I wanted to do it, he said he was scared I would leave him for a better man, because I would look too stunning to stay with him. I don’t think I would look that stunning but I would also not leave him. But I respected his choice, because he loved me with my nose, he fell for me the way I was, so I didn’t do the nose job. I wish I had done though, cause it would give me much more confidence and contentment with myself. Even though that accident positively changed my personality, it made me see “looks” on a totally different level. I realized how after that accident suddenly I was starting to get complimented on my brains more often than looks, while before that accident it was always my “looks” that was in the center of attention. So, it indeed shaken up my confidence and made me feel a bit more self conscious.
I've had reconstructive surgery after a bad wreck. I'm not going to be a hypocrite, but that said, there's such a thing as too much. Some women after surgery 25 just look hideous, but i'm not NOT sleeping with them because they had surgery i'm not sleeping with them because they're hideous.
I guess it kind of depends on the extent of the surgeries, right? Like, someone who had a straight up facial reconstruction isn't the same as someone who wanted breast implants, or a BBL.
I would have a tough time seeing passed a huge surgery like a facial reconstruction.
I too would like to know the answer to this as a woman who had a breast augmentation at 18 years old because my tiny A cup boobs made me depressed, I now have D cups.
Depends why they did it. If it’s out of insecurity because they were self conscious about for a gong age and it’s a subtle surgery than that’s one thing. If it’s because of a trend or out of impulsiveness than no.
