Should I be disgusted with myself?

[Anonymous]

I just found out some devastating news. My boyfriend is about 100lbs lighter than I am. He told me his weight last night and it absolutely crushed me. Girls are supposed to be smaller than their boyfriends not bigger.

I feel so fat knowing that and all I want to do is starve myself skinny. I have about 155lbs to lose to be at a weight that would be significantly smaller than my boyfriend.

I've lost 31lbs so far but I obviously have a long way to go before I can say I'm at a healthy weight. I just feel so disgusted with myself and don't understand how he could be with me.

[ChiTown33]

Stop obsessing! You're on your way to that goal. You've only lost 31lbs? Well that's 31 lbs. More than many other women who'd like to deck you right now.🤣 you've also got a boyfriend. That makes another group of women who'd like to deck you right now.

Sometimes we need to be reminded of our blessings and of how far we've come. There's nothing wrong with being driven, but don't be obsessed. Because life is SHORT! Stop obsessing about the destination and start enjoying the ride. And know you right now ARE the definition of SUCCESS.😃👍👍👍💯

[DarkWinterNights]

Starving yourself isn’t the answer. The faster you lose the weight the harder it will be to keep the weight gone. You do have incentive to lose it now, that’s great! Do some research, create a plan and get to work. You’ll feel better about yourself in no time.

[Anonymous]

Who gives a fuck about who weighs more
As long as you love each other to death, nothing else matters at all

[Billlewis]

No, you shouldn't feel that way at all. You're probably right where you need to be, based on your height and weight.

[DextroShade]

You are right to feel that way, hopefully it pushes you to get to a healthy weight.

[shades777]

so your a cow, but you dont have to say moo, keep at it and soon your be a baby calf!

[Jmmmfi4]

Lots and lots of cardio... and calorie deficit to lose weight

[jahaims]

If you have 155lbs to lose you should be disgusted

[Asker]

Ok thanks. I will try my hardest to starve myself skinny. I just got the Rybelsus 7mg dose to help get the weight off as quickly as possible.