When you are dating online, and you get an unsolicited message from a woman who seems to be out of your league, does that make you suspicious?

[msc545]

[Anonymous]

Always. It used to bother me. Now I just play with the catfish. Because they ARE a catfish. They probably not even a woman😆

To be honest dating apps are nothing but free entertainment to me anymore.

I like when the same woman "likes" my profile multiple times. Because she thinks "this time he's going to message, he just didn't see the other 10 likes".😆

I don't message women first as rule.

I recommend all guys do this. You have to take the power back. IRL men have to approach. Online women have to approach.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't date online anymore, but I'm suspicious of fugly women too if it's unsolicited.

[msc545]

good point.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That sounds weird… I would be suspicious.

If you need any advice,

you can use my female mind and ask me anytime 😚

[msc545]

This isn't for me. This is actually for my friend who is staying with me for a while before he moves to Tennessee. He's been messing around on online dating sites and ran into this and asked me what I thought. I thought I would get some other opinions for him. This is especially important considering my opinions about this whole process are pretty negative

[msc545]

Thank you, but I have my own mind which works just fine.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I know you have an amazing mind, but I generally think men don’t usually understand women all that much. Even if you are a genius, woman’s mind doesn’t fully follow the logic, thus might be easy to misunderstand.

[Daniela1982]

Hey, that was only me catfishing you. Er, what site was that on again?

[RealMarek]

When I was dating online I made a rule of asking for a real, in-person coffee or lunch date within the first three or four messages. I did that because some women just like attention and will message indefinitely with no intention to date and also to call the bluff of any catfishers. If this woman agrees to the date, you can find out if she’s catfishing. But maybe she’s just a beautiful woman who likes what you have shown of yourself online. Sometimes good things happen.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it makes me wonder about them, it is discussing when it turns out to be a catfish.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah definitely, many things they do or say also , like calling me dear or handsome and having only one picture and looking better than average

[coffeeguy78]

Yes and no. Its more what she responds versus the response. Of course we would be siked to have someone way out of our league respond to us but if you're immediately asking for our snapchat or something thats shady, we will find it skeptical. Also if you move quickly into flirty talk, we see a lot of scams with bots that do the same by suckered you into "im about to shower" etc etc so that instantly raises flags for us.

[LiamJHayden]

It would. Even on this site when I see a suspect post, I do a reverse image search just to check if the person posted is some minor celeb.

[Drewtate]

No woman is out of my league but yeah catfishing scammers looking dick picks to black mail you

[exitseven]

I have been propositions on GaG before. Someone wanted me to meet her on some other website so we could do a video chat.

[ProbablyClueless]

On a website specifically for dating? Yeah. Women like that are usually advertising their OnlyFans or whatever else.

[lightbulb27]

when I did.

yes, I didn't trust it. I've had that on GAG, and I don't trust it.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t believe in leagues it all comes down to what you believe in your religion, your moral values, your compatibility and the passion in your heart and being loyal

[slatyb]

Never happened, but if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

[DarkLegacy]

Well no woman is out of my league unless they are a league or two below me

[msc545]

How do they feel about your modesty?

[genericname85]

you mean "above" my league or below?

[msc545]

Above.

[genericname85]

oh. no im not "suspicious" in that case. i already assume it's a scam from the getgo.

[genericname85]

or in the best case just a troll or catfish.

[Anonymous]

lol, no wonder so many men on here are hopelessly single.

[msc545]

Better to be hopelessly single than miserably coupled.

[Fireguy17]

I've never met anyone out of my league.
They all fart, burp and poop.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think big o' catfish.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I'd smell some catfish cooking.

[sheikalana]

That’s probably a man catfishing you.

[Anonymous]

Of course it is spam

[Anonymous]

Sure but it's fun for a few days of fuckery

[jimmy2]

Yep. A red flag

[Anonymous]

Absolutely.