When I have a crush I get completely obsessed and can’t stop thinking about them. Is this normal? Do guys get like this also? How can I make it stop?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

To me, "crush" means that giddy excitement and obsession which arises before you have even said hello, and which characterizes the first stirrings of sexual/romantic interest in pubescent children. If that is what you are experiencing when you are 30-35 years old, it is not normal.

If that is not what you mean, then please explain what you are experiencing.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, for lots of people it is normal.

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for teenagers, otherwise it is just plain weird.

[Asker]

Having feelings for someone and being attracted and interested in someone is weird?

[sheikalana]

That's normal.