Can a man who has slept with more than 100 girls commit?

[Anonymous]

I asked this guy I have been seeing what is his body count, never expecting the number would be this high. We have been seeing each other for a few weeks but I keep thinking about the number. Specially because my number is below average for a girl my age. He told me it’s not something he is proud of, and he wants a relationship. I really like him, I love spending time with him and talking, but I can’t stop thinking about the number. Has anyone been in a relationship with someone with such a high body count? Do you think someone that slept with this many people can commit? If you find out someone you are seeing slept with this many people would you still want to pursue a relationship with them?

[smolbean452]

Don't judge him for his past- if he is truly ashamed of it and wanting to move on and make a life with you. Take your time, do not rush. Definitely get and STD test and take your time. Be careful and wary. Sometimes people make mistakes, sure it's a lot of people but maybe he was in a bad headspace- you don't know. Just see how it goes and if you're unsure if he will just use for you sex and drop you- Definitely wait a while before you give him anything.. unless you feel comfortable otherwise. But just be wary and remember people make mistakes, nobody's perfect. Give him a chance and see how you go :) good luck!

[smolbean452]

Why?

[EmmaMary]

Not a fucking hope in hells chance!

[Wise4myage]

Id wonder if he was even telling you the truth.

[Asker]

He’s a very attractive guy, so much so that my friend told me she would sleep with him, so I believe him

[Wise4myage]

Well, if you do date him or just want to get laid, then ask him to get tested for STD's.

[Jmmmfi4]

Highly doubtful