I have a friends with benefits type situation with this guy. I met him one night and I thought he picked me up and I thought he's hot so I was like why not. Then in his car he said to not freak out but he wears glasses to drive which was fine I guess
Now we saw each other again, we were at a vacation home and inside he was like 100% my type, he didn't wear glasses and had his hair down. I really like long hair by the way so that's important. I know I sound really shallow but it's just a friends with benefits or something. But then when we were like outside he always put his hair up in a ponytail and put the glasses on which I always found so off putting and I feel horrible tbh, everytime we went back in and he took the glasses off again I instantly thought he looks good again, I also lowkey asked why he doesn't wear contacts like I do because glasses are annoying and everytime we started making out I like opened his hair
Basically he's 100% my type but only in private with the hair and tattoos and all but in public he looks professional almost and that's really not my thing at all especially because then suddenly he looks a lot older than he is and gives an entire different vibe I now just look like his whore lmao. I know I'm not dating him of course but still. Thoughts and help?