Girls, Will I ever find my women? Knowing that I'm very nervous and not very good at talking to women?

[JimmyjamesB]

After being in a relationship for 12 years of failed, I feel that I'm trying to talk to a woman won't work. I have tried and failed. People don't even look at me whether it's my vibe or how depressed im feeling I don't know

[_Maya_]

Well if you are feeling depressed it probably shows in your personality or what other people see you as. That very well could be the problem with meeting and talking to girls. You gotta take care of you first and get that straightened out before you can put the best version of yourself out there. Not being in the right state of mind and trying to impress a girl isn't going to work real well. To answer the question though yeah of course there is a chance you will find someone new. Don't give up because of the past.

[JimmyjamesB]

I'm trying to do that. It's really not that easy after a narcissistic relationship. All of my confidence has been destroyed. When I look in the mirror I don't see the same person anymore

[_Maya_]

I'm sure it is super hard to do. I'm not discounting that at all.

[JimmyjamesB]

Thanks Mia I do appreciate the feedback and opinions 🙂
I just have got to a point now I hate seeing other people happy with each other. Makes me just want to go and sit on a mountain

[_Maya_]

You are welcome and keep working at it. Nothing in life is easy or given to us.

[Nikki1989]

You will probably have to change your attitude and show some positivity. If you do, people will pick up on that.